my supirior at work has start saying to me how good i look lately and that he want to take me out and stuff.how can i tell him no without him getting angry, and lose my job???
2006-06-05 23:27:11 · 24 answers · asked by anna 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i am married with a baby 7 months old and he knows it...
2006-06-05 23:48:47 · update #1
tell him u respect him alot and u will like to maintain the good working relationship with him, tell him also that u have a boyfriend u love very much and u cant cheat on him.
dont accept any invitation from him cos ur boyfriend might know, see u or someone might tell him, believe it, it happened to me and now my boyfriend doesnt trust me anymore and my relationship is over.
2006-06-05 23:33:19 · answer #1 · answered by SeXyBaBe 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him politely that you are not interested. If he persists in harassing you, or treats you unfairly, then there are laws which protect the employee from this kind of behaviour. He will no doubt be aware of these laws so he would be wise to be careful. But don't be intimidated. If he persists then report him and his actions to his superior or to your human resources department (if there is one). In this scenario, any witnesses you have to his behaviour would be helpful.
But failing all else, try to avoid situations where you are alone with him. Try to make sure that there is always another person around when you speak with him.
2006-06-06 06:34:29 · answer #2 · answered by Hmmmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that professionally and ethically having any type of exclusive social contact is out of the question until he quits his job and finds a new one.
2006-06-06 06:35:07 · answer #3 · answered by Warrior 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reduce the period of meeting or confronting with him to minimum. keep ingrossed with the work in the office. No un neccessary talking and eye to eye contact.Try to learn politics and polite manners. I hope this will help
2006-06-06 07:31:22 · answer #4 · answered by Surjit 42 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jst wait till he says anything about proposing.When he does just say that u don't wanna' go in all this stuff and ignore him.Your freedom is more imp' than your job I suppose.
2006-06-06 06:36:14 · answer #5 · answered by the invinci 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should check the human resource manual about sexual harrassment. your company i am sure has rules about it and even if they do not, you can let your supervisor know that it is unwanted harrassment and you do not appreciate it. talk with human resources and file a complaint. he obviously has already stepped over the line.
2006-06-06 08:40:18 · answer #6 · answered by smiths j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that he's making you feel uncomfortable and if he doesn't stop you will file a sexual harassment complaint. Definitely follow through with the claim if he doesn't stop.
2006-06-06 06:41:21 · answer #7 · answered by Mizbehavin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not interested, tell hime specifically and in clear terms. Job conditions does not ask for such duties.
2006-06-06 06:31:34 · answer #8 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a very tacky question u have there !!!!!
y dont u tell him tht u r alredy goin out and tht u would luv 2 have a very close friendship!!!!
And if he really luvs u then he would neva get pissed!!!!
2006-06-06 06:36:31 · answer #9 · answered by devilgirl_aquarius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come right out and say i am not interested and if you get fired take it to the top brass and tell them that you said no and thats that don't let your superior do that that tech is sexual harrassment turn im in if he don't stop
2006-06-06 06:31:45 · answer #10 · answered by student 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋