i have told her a secret and i told her not to say about it to anyone. but she said that secret to everyone. i wrote her some insulting letter. and said not to talk with me. She does not understand her mistake. WHAT should i do to convince her and make my friend again. {She does not have a email id }
2006-06-05 23:07:30 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't think your friend understand what the word secret is. Irrespective of that, and despite that fact that she cant see her wrong you don't have to force her let her come around her self its better that way.
If she doesn't, and you still consider her as your friend, get in-touch with her which ever way you can and explain the situation. If you really love her as a real friend don't give up on her.
Concerning the letter you wrote, please write another one saying you are sorry no one is above mistakes especially our friends.
2006-06-06 00:14:53 · answer #1 · answered by B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to have no idea if a woman was ready to be kissed.
I could be sitting there talking to her, thinking to myself “Wow, her lips really look nice...” but I didn't know what to do next. This would often leave me kissless, and many times kissless for good, as I didn't get another chance.
Here's what I do now:
If I've been talking to a girl, and I want to know if she's ready to be kissed, I'll reach over and touch her hair while we're talking and make a comment about it. I'll say "Your hair looks so soft" and just touch the tips of it.
If she smiles and likes this, I'll reach back over and start stroking it again, but this time I also glance down at her lips and back up to her eyes a couple of times. If she lets me keep touching her hair, I know that she's ready to be kissed.
By using “The Kiss Test” I've been kind and complimentary, but by being very SUBTLE about it, I haven't given her anything she can object to. I now have a way of knowing if she's ready to be kissed that NEVER gets me rejected—and I know within 5 minutes what it used to take me hours or days to figure out...
2006-06-18 21:42:57 · answer #2 · answered by Mastani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she was your friend she shouldn't have told your secret in the first place. bad enough she told it to everyone she could find, i think your better off leaving her alone but if you want to put up with her ignorce tell her she made a mistake telling your secret and she needs to understand that. because it was a secret not an annoucement.
2006-06-19 05:00:46 · answer #3 · answered by cutie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, she owes you just as much as you owe her. Friends don't repeat secrets. Sounds like she doesn't value you as a friend and you're better than that.
Find a friend that you can trust that respects you.
Don't convince this other girl to be your friend when she told everyone what you asked her to keep private.
Good luck!
2006-06-19 14:15:50 · answer #4 · answered by goddess_veronica54 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did nothing bad by telling her how you felt in that letter. She probably needed to know that.
But if she's not talking to you thats her choice and you can't force her to be a friend, in fact if you do try it will probably ruin things.
The reason you fell out with her is that she blabbed about you, you then tell her how you feel about it, and now shes still not talking to you. You have done an honest thing but the balls in her court now.
2006-06-18 13:13:34 · answer #5 · answered by Zinc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st off you betrayed someones confidences with TELLING the secret. Secrets are to be kept...that's why it's called a secret.
Your friend felt betrayed....because after all you told the secret first!!! She just passed the secret along in the form of gossip!
2006-06-18 06:31:04 · answer #6 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to haven't any theory if a girl was geared up to be kissed. i could desire to be sitting there chatting along with her, pondering to myself “Wow, her lips somewhat seem passable...” yet I did no longer comprehend what to do next. this could oftentimes bypass away me kissless, and frequently kissless for great, as i did no longer get a miles better possibility. right this is what I do now: If I relatively have been conversing to a girl, and that i could desire to comprehend if she's waiting to be kissed, i will gain over and touch her hair on an identical time we are conversing and make a assertion approximately it. i will say "Your hair seems so soft" and easily touch the suggestions of it. If she smiles and likes this, i will attain back over and initiate stroking it back, although this time I additionally seem down at her lips and back as much as her eyes a pair of events. If she shall we me save touching her hair, i comprehend that she's waiting to be kissed. by means of using utilising “The Kiss test” I relatively have been kind and complimentary, yet by means of being very comfortable approximately it, I relatively have under no circumstances given her some thing she will merchandise to. I now have a technique of understanding if she's powerful to be kissed that under no situations gets me rejected—and that i comprehend interior 5 minutes what it used to take me hours or days to confirm...
2016-12-08 07:06:23 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend is loyal and trustworthy. She has already proved that she is not. Why do you want her as a friend again? " She does not understand her mistake"???? Nonsense! I don't understand the mistake YOU are about to make if you go back for more.
2006-06-05 23:21:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your "friend" doesn't know how to be a friend. That doesn't make you right to insult her either. You are face with two choices: to ask your friend 4 forgiveness, or to reverse the treatment of the friend u wrong.
2006-06-18 08:14:19 · answer #9 · answered by h2o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not a friend, the one you trust a secret and can't keep it. Forget about it and move on. If you really want to be her/his friendship again, ignore her/him, wait and if doesn't happen it wasn't meant to be. GET OVER IT!
2006-06-17 16:36:07 · answer #10 · answered by arecibena_ausente 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋