marry with me. his mother and sister hates me what shall i do?
i seriously love with him
2006-06-05 21:57:52 · 16 answers · asked by raameen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Find out why they hate you (if you don't yet know the reason). If it's based on religion, etc., then the only option you have is to really fight. If it's something else, ie, physical or characteristic aspect they hate, it's something you can work around in good time. Don't lose faith. But your man has to have as much patience and make just as much effort as you do in this. If there's really no way out and you think he's going to leave you - leave him. Otherwise he may end up someone else's and destroy you. Good luck!
2006-06-05 22:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in exactly the same situation, except my family hate him as well as his family hating me. Stay with him girl, you'll regret it the rest of your life if you give in. Forget his mother and his sister, they are probably just jealous. He's the important one. Marry him, and who cares if they don't come to see you? You two will be better off by yourselves.
My problem comes from a strict family, plus several trouble-makers and liars who keep saying nasty things about us. Is this what happened to you? Just be strong, and stand up to all of them! It's easy when you've got a lovely guy beside you.
2006-06-05 22:02:00 · answer #2 · answered by Scheherazade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your man are the ones getting married. You two need to make decisions for yourselves. Try to make a point of bridging the gap between your boyfriends mom and sister. Hopefully they will get over your differences.
2006-06-05 22:03:15 · answer #3 · answered by Gregie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he marrying his mother or his sister? Neither? Then tell him to grow some balls and take you in his arms like a man ought to.
2006-06-05 22:00:23 · answer #4 · answered by E-rok 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His mother and his sister will accept you with time, don't let them to destroy your love, is the most beautiful thing will ever happen to a person
2006-06-05 22:06:51 · answer #5 · answered by ice cream with chocolate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure he is well worth it. That if there ever were a quarrel where he had to tbe in the middle, make sure he is fair if not brace yourself up for a huge disappointment.
2006-06-05 22:04:25 · answer #6 · answered by Quasimodo's Belfry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start by taking some English lessons,,am just kidding relax..if he really loves you and you love him why do you care about what his sister and mother think???Just go and get married and have 50 kids!
2006-06-05 22:01:07 · answer #7 · answered by Kath 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
F--k his family. You don't have to sleep with them at night. Don't let them come between the both of you. Go for your happiness and forget everyone else! If they don't loke you it's their lost and they will have to suck it up! Congrats and good luck!
2006-06-05 22:03:25 · answer #8 · answered by lifeislove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its always nice to have family approval but ultimately its what the two of youse decide is best.
2006-06-05 21:59:53 · answer #9 · answered by will 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them how you really feel. If they love you they'll accept you with the one whom you love. If not, then just pick whom you wouldn't want to lose.
2006-06-05 22:07:23 · answer #10 · answered by stare@u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋