i love one of my friends.i am an 18 year old girl and she is 20. we have slept together twice and i dont know how she feels about me.
shes moving to spain soon and im gutted should i tell her i love her.
2006-06-05 21:57:36 · 28 answers · asked by addicted to this 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Yes, you only live once. Go for it, and good luck!
2006-06-05 21:58:58 · answer #1 · answered by K38 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Bentley, I`m sure that this girl is very fond of you or she would not have slept with you, so tell her that you love her. However, she may not be ready for a deep and serious relationship just yet, so you need to be prepared for the fact that she will still go to spain and experience other things. Are you prepared to wait for her? or go on many trips to spain to be with her? Good luck Bentley I really hope it works out for you!!!!
2006-06-06 05:14:50 · answer #2 · answered by helen b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it this way - if you don't you could miss the chance and everything that could be, might not, just 'cos you didn't say...
The worst that can happen is she will be freaked out - she'd get over it.
The best thing could be a forever-after happily together kinda thing.
Isn't it worth the risk??? Especially so if she's going to Spain... go for it girl! Good luck!
2006-06-06 10:38:07 · answer #3 · answered by old_but_still_a_child 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should. Just dont expect the same in return - if she felt the same way, she would not be moving away to spain. Dont worry it will probrably happen atleast 4 times in your life where you tell someone you love them and it all goes pear shaped... you live and you learn though! Good luck!
2006-06-10 12:56:20 · answer #4 · answered by topofnewyork2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would normally agree with everyone else and say yes tell her but she is moving away soon. If her feelings are reciprocated then you will be crushed when she moves to Spain.
Do you have any mutual friends who are aware of the situation? Possibly ask one of them.
I hope everything works out for you.
2006-06-06 05:11:44 · answer #5 · answered by Wkd fraggle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it and if she freaks out you probably wont see her for a long time anyway but if she tells you she loves you back shell stay or both of you could move to spain
2006-06-12 20:06:33 · answer #6 · answered by Jammy Dodgers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would certainly tell her you have feelings for her. I don't know if I would say I love her at this point. You don't know how receptive she would be to that at the moment. But do go for it. You only get one crack at this sometimes so you have got to take the opportunity whenever the chance arises.
Good luck!
2006-06-06 05:01:42 · answer #7 · answered by Hallber 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think you should. How is she going to know if you do not say something? This is the best way to find out how she feels too. Good luck to you my dear.
2006-06-06 05:12:07 · answer #8 · answered by Tina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will regret it for a long time if you don't.
You're only 18 - so even if it goes horribly wrong, you've got plenty of time to heal and start again.
I'd say, be honest with her.
Fingers crossed for you. !
2006-06-12 06:50:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's the type that sleeps with you without having any feelings for you, then you don't want her anyway.
otherwise, the feeling is probably mutual.
either way you have nothing to lose so yes, tell her immediately
2006-06-06 05:01:20 · answer #10 · answered by jibba.jabba 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How sure are you that she's into a gal-gal relationship? If you are willing to sacrifice your friendship then go tell her. The risk is on you.
2006-06-06 05:02:30 · answer #11 · answered by lilac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋