Is this wrong.?
2006-06-05 21:07:05 · 21 answers · asked by lefty 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would say it depends on if the man is a virgin himself, if so I think it is ok, because then the couple would be sharing the same morals. But if the man is not a virgin then I think it is wrong for him to want someting from the woman that he himself could not or would not do, hypocritical to me. Also, if you fall in love with someone who happens to have had sex already then I think it would be dumb not to marry her solely for this reason, it's not like it's something she can take back, and should not be denied love by you because of something that happened in her past.
2006-06-05 21:11:59 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. FairyLove 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes its wrong, because the man does what he wants and expects the woman to be a virgin...
2006-06-05 21:32:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not wrong but I do niot understand why any man would want to mary a virgin. I find that gals that have been out and about are a lot better to be with.
2006-06-05 21:23:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if the guy is a virgin too. If he wants a virgin wife while not applying his principles to himself then he is being unfair and he doesn't deserve any woman, virgin or not.
2006-06-05 21:15:06 · answer #4 · answered by foxpassed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To each his own, it's like saying is it wrong for a man to not want to marry a virgin....
2006-06-05 21:11:32 · answer #5 · answered by micheypoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not wrong! that is supposed to be the case... but by this time it is so hard to find a virgin wife...but i tell you it is more wrong if you want to marry a not-virgin wife
2006-06-05 21:10:31 · answer #6 · answered by [][][][][][][][][] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless a guy visually inspects a woman's privates, not necessarily. Sometimes a woman's hymen doesn't completely cover the vaginal opening so that it doesn't get broken at all upon penetration. (This is especially true if the guy isn't particularly well-endowed.) And many adult women don't have "maidenheads" at all; using tampons and certain athletic activity (riding bikes for instance) can cause it to break. And the hymen does begin to break apart when a woman ages.
2016-03-26 20:49:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong if he is a virgin too.
2006-06-05 21:11:08 · answer #8 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think it's natural, but you have to be fair. Don't demand your wife is a virgin if you are not one yourself. It eliminates a lot of jealousy problems too, and you don't have to worry if you are being compared to previous lovers. But like I said, be fair.
2006-06-05 21:43:02 · answer #9 · answered by Scheherazade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong? No, not wrong, because anyone can establish any standard one wants in a future spouse. I do think you would be excluding a lot of quality people from your list of candidates, but that just leaves more for the rest of us. Thanks.
2006-06-05 22:56:50 · answer #10 · answered by blorgo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋