my parents tell me its bad to touch myself, so i never do. Then when im around girls, i hit on them constintley, and my gf gets really mad just cuz i talk to other girls, but im a strong christian and i dont want to upset God, so what should i do? will the G man be mad at me?
2006-06-05 20:20:44 · 7 answers · asked by aaronhoward09 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Go for it, touch yourself, f**k the h**l out of your gf. To get into heaven is like putting an elephant into the eye of a needle. It all can't be perfect. You must answer to your urges because no matter what you do in life, there is going to be something that is wrong. All you can do is live life the best you can and hope it's good enough in god's eyes. I don't think that having sex is something that is going to get you sent to hell.
2006-06-05 20:29:47 · answer #1 · answered by bj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Six inches is right in the middle of the average range (5-7 inches when erect) is so you are absolutely normal there! As far as masturbation, as I've said about a hundred times here it's normal, healthy and FUN. There are no side effects and great mental and physical benefits. Almost all males and females from before puberty to old age do it. Nothing to be ashamed about at all! You really won't upset God if you do it either. Frankly I think this is a time to ignore what your parents tell you (they are just wrong!) and do it as much as you feel the need to in private. There is nothing that says we have to tell our parents EVERYTHING you know! You are right and they are wrong. Don't make an issue of it...but enjoy (your God given!) sexuality!
2006-06-06 10:58:01 · answer #2 · answered by doctor feelgood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is natural...for you to be curious and want it is also natural...this is how He programmed us. As Christians though we are also expected to respect it as something that is at its absolute best in the context of marriage. Personally, I think that there is nothing wrong with masterbation...it sure beats you getting some girl pregnant before you are anywhere ready to be married...besides, honestly, nobody will ever be able to do it better than you for yourself.
I think that your parents...like all parents...would like to think that you will grow up and get married and be pure and virginal and never have a nasty thought in your head...God already knows that we are flawed...and by His grace He loves us regardless. I think that it is better for you to masterbate than to have sex with a bunch of girls...when you sow your seeds with a bunch of immature and unresponsible little girls you are planting whole fields of problems for yourself later. You have no idea what kinds of fungus and STDs are running rampant these days...this would be much more embarassing to have to deal with in terms of your parents than the issue of masterbation...trust me on this. I didn't even mention pregnancy...that is the bad choice that grows up and walks, talks, and makes more bad choices.
I can't read God's mind...but I have been a Christian my whole life and study the bible indepth and I believe that God didn't tell us not to masterbate or have sex outside of marriage because He just wanted to set rules by which to punish us later. God stands outside of time and He knew that by the time we had been on earth for however many thousands of years that we were determined to be here that we would have had sex of every flavor and disease would be completely killing us and we would be creating innumerable problems for ourselves. I don't think that He was ORDERING us to not have sex...I think that He was WARNING us that bad things would happen if we weren't careful.
Think of it like this: When your parents tell you to wear your helmet it isn't because they want to be able to get pissed when you don't...it's because they know that if you don't and your skull hits the pavement you are going to bleed, there is going to be pain, and you could die.
God hates death...He hates disease...this is why it's bad to go sleeping around. Too much sex with too many people leads to both of these.
So, my advise...masterbate and don't tell anyone. Be very stealthy about it. Be careful what you fantasize about because where your mind goes your body will surely follow.
2006-06-06 04:01:04 · answer #3 · answered by alexajbully 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God gave you a penis and taught you to masterbate.
God does not like people who say that masterbating is wrong.
2006-06-06 18:34:12 · answer #4 · answered by ***** 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with masturbating! Enjoy! It is a good way to relieve tension.
2006-06-06 03:37:46 · answer #5 · answered by JZ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it natural to mastubate looking at teen girls so i do it is not like upseting god it all natural
2006-06-06 06:13:21 · answer #6 · answered by deadly rider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IM me now: fire_syringe@yahoo.com
I'm a male registered nurse and a Christian.
I can help.
2006-06-06 05:29:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋