and he goes on and on until he is finished and then for about and hour later he keeps saying that would never happen! I tell him of course it wouldn't we were only fantasizing together and he says that is right, you better never cheat on me! I don't understand what is up with this, if it offends him why does HE keep making me do this role playing like this during sex?!?!?!?!?!?! I am so confused!!
2006-06-05 19:50:30 · 13 answers · asked by Mondell&Mel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He is playing mind games with you girl. No one "role plays" about things that truly upset them. He is trying to get a rise out of you. A**hole. I would be angry, not confused.
2006-06-05 19:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by jen 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him you are confused. If it really becomes an issue with you two, (maybe it already HAS) then I think it would be a good idea for the two of you guys to see a counselor. He probably will not want to go. Most men don't think that this type of thing is a good idea. If need be, then you go alone. If your husband doesn't help you to understand why he does certain things or says certain things , a counselor may be able to shed some light on the problem. Good luck, friend.
2006-06-06 02:57:22 · answer #2 · answered by I am Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be role playing like that with my husband. LOL, he gets angry enough if he thinks a guy is hitting on me, let alone an image of one ..........well. Then again, I'm lucky. my husband is the traditional type. He's happy as long as I'm happy, and when I'm happy i spoil him. I cook a lot, house is sparkling clean, the children and I are clean and dressed nicely. Then he goes off and buys me little gifts or brings home whatever I tend to be craving. He helps with the housework and watches the children while i work or when I just need a break. I love being a muslim woman and having a husband who truly follows Islam.
2006-06-06 03:44:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He can't deal with reality so he has to go into a fantasy world and take you with him. Stop role playing and make him face reality. Its a good chance you don't turn him on and if not you need to know maybe you to are not meant to be find out stop the role playing.
2006-06-06 02:54:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thought of his wife with another man turns him on, but he knows the bondaries between fantasy and reality. So while role playing is safe, he just wants to be reassured that it won't really happen. Which is cool I guess,....guys are twisted you can't alwasy understand them .
2006-06-06 03:00:38 · answer #5 · answered by Sweetbulbs 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am probably way off base and if i am i'm sorry.
could he be fantasizing about having sex with another guy and using you to fulfill this someway but not actually admit he is fantasizing about a guy
2006-06-06 03:40:01 · answer #6 · answered by sparkle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it upsets him, don't role play. Poor guys gonna have a heart attack!
2006-06-06 02:54:01 · answer #7 · answered by powhound 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like it stop, if you do make up one you would like. I do this with my wife, and she makes up some good ones, gets me hard I have to say.
2006-06-06 03:41:46 · answer #8 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to stop it or you will find another guy to have sex with
2006-06-06 03:26:18 · answer #9 · answered by jscifres02 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is pure fantasy but try telling him but don't wait till your having sex.
2006-06-06 02:52:36 · answer #10 · answered by coliecisco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋