Dear women, I have a problem, My penis is only 5 inch. My wife is not really enjoying it. In my earlier questions so many women said that the size does not matter, what matters is how it is being used. I know only one way of using it.( insertion) . Is there other ways of using it? What are different things a woman will enjoy a penis?I asked this question to different women. But nobody is giving a clear answer. Is there anybody who can clearly explain to me? At least the way you like?
2006-06-05 19:46:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I can honestly say from personal experience that size has nothing to do with it. And the whole thing of" it is how you use it" is more on the subject of doing differnt things with it , like different positions and how well you use what you have. I can offer a position that you might want to give a try b/c with my husband not being that long it workd out so much better than all of the other ones. Basically, she lays on her side ( doesn't matter which one ) with her bottm leg in between yours and the other one wrapped around your hip. This way you get a deeper penitration and with her in that position you can get some momentum going and it works really well. I hope this has helped.
Good luck!
2006-06-06 05:04:48 · answer #1 · answered by Shea 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So sorry to hear about your situation. What I personally recommend is you look into purchasing some great sex toys. A great website is www.xandria.com. Since you mentioned that your wife is unsatisfied, it may be best to stimulate her in other ways. For instance, there is a vaginal orgasm and a clitoral orgasm. You could purchase a vibrator to stimulate her clitoris, or use your tongue. If that doesnt' do it for her, there are suction devices that fit over her clitoris area and that feels just dandy too. Her clitoris looks like a hood. Focus on the areas around the hood. Most men want to spread a woman's legs and get right in that meatflower, but focus your attention on the delicate hood of the clitoris, and not the clitoris itself. Also, purchase massage oils in scents that she might enjoy. If you wish to surprise her, then most women enjoy a good vanilla scent. It is very calming and you could purchase accompanying candles at a place like Bed Bath and Beyond. Also, dildos are another great option if she is looking for length and fullness to a penis. The new ones feel like real skin and they come in big fat black ones, and whites ones, and spicy latino ones too! You can choose you own length and thickness. Further, focus your attention on her breasts. When you suck her nipples, do you attack her like Wolverine, or do you do it gently. Use your tongue to swirl around her nipples, and dont get them wet and gross with too much saliva. Kiss the back of her neck and her thigh area in and around the lips of her vagina. Stroke her hair and massage your fingertips around her scalp. That feels GOOD! Brush her hair sometimes, tell her she's beautiful too. Oh, and finally, purchase the penis strap that fits on your chin like a cup. That way, you can thrust it into her vagina, while your mouth is free to explore your wife's meatflower. Well, have fun. And remember, it's not the size of the snake, it's the way it sizzles.
2006-06-05 19:57:35 · answer #2 · answered by adjoadjo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, at risk of embarrassing myself I will share what I've recently learned. My husband and I have been married for 20 years. We just recently found that I have an area toward the end of my vaginal canal toward the front (that's toward my stomach) that is very sensitive and gives me great pleasure when it is rubbed either by his fingers or a toy with a bend at the tip so that it makes contact with that area. It is amazing...I wish we'd discovered this 20 years ago!
2006-06-05 22:07:23 · answer #3 · answered by Jessie Mae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your penis is 5" erected? The best bet is oral sex. you can give her a orgasm from oral sex, and she will be very satisfied. Get a vibrator and use it on her. You can do different positions so you can go deeper, try ***** style have her put her face down(on the bed) and her butt high up. hope that helps.
2006-06-05 20:09:30 · answer #4 · answered by daddys_girl319 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about oral and 69 posistion. Also toys are great too. You also may want to get pills or surgery to help you grow. Buy her flavor so she will love to give you oral. Try ***** style to or let her on top so that she can have you enter her deeper.
2006-06-06 00:39:01 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your wife truly love you,and you her then it wouldnt matter about the size b/c when you make love to her while kissing her
all over rubbing her ever so gently squeezing her, whispering
you love her, then maybe switching using your fingers or
something, and doing other passionate things while in the
mode . if you do it right, i bet she wont be so focused on the
size.but on something else, if you know what i mean.
2006-06-05 20:36:58 · answer #6 · answered by sexy brown eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your wife what she wants and really really listen to her..size does matter but compared to most 'small' men you have enough to work with.
2006-06-05 21:07:53 · answer #7 · answered by rachellynn200 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can try to use the OTHER entrance if you know what i mean. it might satify her. my friends boyfriend was like you and thats what they did
2006-06-05 20:01:10 · answer #8 · answered by shortyP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not dip your wick i company ink !
2016-03-27 04:12:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you do toilet with it?
2006-06-05 20:45:56 · answer #10 · answered by Kagome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋