Mon to Sat . can you trust him or her
2006-06-05 19:44:35 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Does He offer you to come along? If not, Then you should be concerned
2006-06-16 15:29:21 · answer #1 · answered by arky_gal62 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! We DO live in a cynical world! Trust is a two way street! Would you trust yourself? I have been married to the same man for 20 years and I trust him explicitly! Why not? I can't sit around making myself sick worrying! If you don't trust him or her maybe there is a reason? If you don't spend time (quality) together this may be something to consider. But I, nor you, can jump to conclusions because someone may watch too much T.V. Talk to him or her tonight? Get it straight from the horses mouth! You made a promise to one another so keep it! YOU TOO! Let him or her know that your concerned with the time spent away from you and need a little more attention. Return that attention 150% and if it is all just your imagination won't you feel silly when the attention is reciprocated. Good Luck!
2006-06-17 06:47:33 · answer #2 · answered by wonderingmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question is can you stay married to someone you cannot trust? The answer is no. Check your heart of hearts, if your husband tells you he has to entertain a client everyday and you feel compromised, then you don't trust him (bottom line). If you are married without trust you are not happily married. You must bring to his attention your feelings.
2006-06-19 02:01:45 · answer #3 · answered by gravelgertiesgems 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would follow my spouse without him/her knowing... to see just exactly what is meant by "entertaining a client." Get pictures, if possible. You might need the proof when you confront your spouse and they might come in handy to give to your divorce lawyer. (Have you noticed his paychecks being bigger for the extra hours spent entertaining???)
Or if that doesn't work, talk to your spouse's boss to see if he/she can get out of having to entertain the clients for a day or two so you and your spouse can have a weekend alone. If the boss doesn't know what you are talking about (and I suspect the boss won't have a clue), I'd say your spouse is definitely cheating.
Good luck to you in this... it's gonna be hard because I'm sure you're going to find out that the entertaining is not job-related.
2006-06-05 20:27:19 · answer #4 · answered by DearAbby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was married to this woman for over 13 years I trusted her and she trusted me with everything including our lives. I guess it is a "feeling" you have deep inside when you know this can be possible to do. We were the best of friends and had a special bond that is still great to this day. We split up so she could follow her singing career and are still good friends. Not every couple has this trust thing going for them but it sure makes it comfortable when you have that trust going for you.
2006-06-17 03:20:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately I would have to agree with the others. No client is that needy. There is something else going on and it would do you well to find out, even if you have to do the "snooping" yourself, or hire someone to follow your spouse around. From your question, I would assume you have questioned your spouse regarding this Monday to Saturday client entertaining and your spouse has insisted it is simply business. Remember, even a client has a life that she or he would like to spend, and most likely not with your spouse, but with his own friends, family, interests, etc.
2006-06-19 19:35:15 · answer #6 · answered by Randa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is everything in a relationship. If you are doubting your spouse the trust has gone.
Has your spouse done anything else to make you think that they are being unfaithful? Things like buying new outfits, taking extra care with their grooming? If so I would guess that they are having an affair.
If you have good communication with your spouse you should be able to discuss any problems as adults - calmly.
2006-06-17 18:46:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyday sorry to say but your husband is playing you like a fool leave him alone something doesn't sound right about the situation. everyday is too long to be entertaining anybody get the hint the man is cheating with his so called client i say follow him and see for yourself
2006-06-19 13:45:20 · answer #8 · answered by cutie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just said the magic word "trust"....yes I would trust my husband because I am secure in my relationship with him....and also with my job I am away from him sometimes 2 weeks at a time, and we both know that the other is working....plus we call each other everyday when either of us is away from one another....
2006-06-19 02:13:31 · answer #9 · answered by angel_fire_2149 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up...if the duck walks like one, quacks like one then that duck is a duck (in otherwards).....if the hubby is telling you he's with clients, and acts like he's been with a client, then that client must be sleeping in your hubbys' briefcase!!...
I would check with his office, personnel, ask questions of h is co-workers, hire a private detective and have the louse followed! You'll find your dear sweet hubby held up at either some motel, or some chicky babes apartment or house!!!
2006-06-18 06:43:21 · answer #10 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't believe that he is entertaining a client 6 out of 7 days, you gotta be pretty gulible to believe that. I assume it is the same client every day? Nah, that's BS.
2006-06-16 10:22:15 · answer #11 · answered by Samba Queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋