I'm 28 and have been married for 4 years.I love my husband but I fall for cute and nice guys I see around,,I dont cheat on him but this is killing me..is this a normal feeling? this time i cant stop thinkin about this guy i chatted with couple days ago and I love my hubby..please help find out if there are other wemon like me
2006-06-05 18:23:16 · 16 answers · asked by me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry, but I don't think you love your man. Look, deep, deep into yourself please. Why are you with your husband; same interests; why did you marry in the first place?
There are always lots of interesting guys out there, but, but, not to play with. If you don't want your relationship, don't hurt him. Get out now and move on and be very careful and date and date, and don't marry again until you know this is the guy.
I know. I have been married 2 times -- and, well, what more can I say. Think, ponder and get on one way or another with your life. Don't hurt anyone....he doesn't deserve this ...
luv Ava
2006-06-05 19:22:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You control your emotions - so you have the ability to cut this other guy that you think you love off. Being that your married and you love your husband you need to get rid of the extra curricular activity of talking to other men in more than a friendship manner.
If you are talking to these guys because they are sweet and nice and pay attention to you - then talk to your husband about him giving you more attention. There isn't one thing that these strange guys can give you that your husband can't fulfill if you are just honest and let him know what you need.
Communicate with your husband and you won't even want to be talking to strange guys and you will have no need to be having these feelings of "love" or infatuation for another man.
2006-06-05 18:27:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they can but you have to choose to put your spouse first and let the other person go. This is normal but not right. You may need some counseling as well. How would you feel if he loved you and some other woman at the same time? Put yourself in his shoes for a day.
2006-06-06 00:22:43 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-06-05 18:26:22 · answer #4 · answered by alluring_bec 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are just in lust. Think about everything you could lose if you cheat. If I were you, I wouldn't chat with the guy anymore.
2006-06-05 18:29:33 · answer #5 · answered by stevie ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are always going to be other guys you like. you just have to remember that your husband is the one you picked so forget the others. it's like cars. if you buy your dream car, you're still going to see other great cars on the street but you can't just buy 10 cars
2006-06-05 18:28:52 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal & its ok as long as u keep it 2 urself..
i have a bf & i luv him but im beginning 2 fall 4 another guy..
2006-06-05 19:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't play with fire. Focus your energy into your relationship with your husband.
2006-06-05 18:26:52 · answer #8 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you realy loved your husband you would not ask this ever hear of lust quiet a difference in my opion .?
2006-06-05 18:35:54 · answer #9 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can sometimes be confused with lust.
2006-06-05 18:27:20 · answer #10 · answered by Lewis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋