2006-06-05 17:32:09 · 21 answers · asked by olajide 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I think you may be taking it a bit lightly. Start with planned parent hood, don't go through just anyone or look on the internet because you can't always trust everything you read. Planned Parenthood is a well known agency that you can trust.Please weigh your options. Talk to women from bothsides of the issue ones who have had thier babies and ones who have had abortions. Talk to people who want to adopt. It really can mess with your mind as you get older. No matter what you are going to have to carry with you the thought of your child, if not where she is and how she is doing then what would she have looked like and should I have kept her. Don't just go and get an abortion. It is your choice but make sure you won't regret it. Please be absolutly positive first. Planned parenthood can help you in either direction you choose to go. Please let me know if you need help. or someone to talk to. I would like to know how everything turns out if you could keep me updated that would be great. I hope i could help
2006-06-05 17:56:57 · answer #1 · answered by 20mommy05 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well a few weeks ago a woman came on here asking if there was anyone going to have an abortion and if they were to contact her regarding adopting that baby...
here's her question...
"Are you thining about having an abortion? Instead can I adopt your baby?
My husband and I are looking to adopt a baby, we have had a beautiful little girl who is two now, but have had 4 miscariages and are despritly wanting another baby to pour our love on."
Her nickname is "emerys4christ" and you can make her or people like her the happiest couple in the world...
please remember that you might not want a baby, but there is always someone who does. I implore you to seek her name in "answers" and send her a message.. you have the power to change someones life for the better!
good luck with things, give that baby a beautiful life with someone who will care for and love him/her.
2006-06-05 18:35:02 · answer #2 · answered by *Kali* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may think you dont want to become a mum but when you've killed that little baby, you'll always have questions. And when you have another baby - one thats 'convinient' you'll take it out on them. Smother them with gifts, feed them till they're fat or just wonder 'did you look like him?'
You dont have to become a parent, just give the little life to someone else who does.
The scariest part of being a responsible adult is when you make a mistake.
2006-06-06 12:18:11 · answer #3 · answered by Wicked Top. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with chefswamy or proudmummy. Ive adopted two beautiful boys whose mothers, I'd consider, were too young to even be going out on dates. But I'm glad they didnt get rid of the babies. You should see them today, 2 most beautiful children.
My advise is for you to calm down and take time to talk to people with the right experience. I've got friends who regret their abortion but for you, you have time to think over.
Good luck girl..
2006-06-05 18:33:30 · answer #4 · answered by annmohdali 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, what I think you're doing is completly and utterly stupid, you took the chance, knowing the consequences of having sex with someone, knowing you could get pregnant and such, you should have the baby and adopt it or something if you can't take care of it, don't be a baby murderer.
2006-06-05 17:36:06 · answer #5 · answered by Pamela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't listen to those people if you don't want the baby here are some info on adoptions the number is 1866-569-2229 email www.ais4adption.com or 1-888-767-7740 email www.aactofloveadptions.com or 1-800-570-2367 email www.aadoption.net good luck sweet
2006-06-05 17:52:23 · answer #6 · answered by msjamie2581 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, take your time about things, calm down , find a friend to talk to and decide what is best for you now & in the future.
I wish you luck x
2006-06-05 17:38:27 · answer #7 · answered by thewetdogproject 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, they are called adoption agencies.
There are 100000 women trying desperately to have a child, crying themselves to sleep at night, marriages destroyed because one partner can't have a child and families that would love a baby as their own and give it everything you can't.
2006-06-05 17:35:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If donot want child go for birthcontrol.If are pregnant dont kill it try to give to some orphanage,because God has only power to kill,abortion is killing
2006-06-05 17:51:48 · answer #9 · answered by leowin1948 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you should have used a condom
have you heard of AIDS?
you are doing a good job of spreading it
you got yourself into the mess and you now should keep the poor child
2006-06-05 17:43:11 · answer #10 · answered by everybody loves chris! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋