2006-06-05 17:04:14 · 11 answers · asked by HI 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Be willing to slow down, and don't panic. Just because he's talking to his ex doesn't mean they're getting back together. And then again, it doesn't mean that they aren't. Life offers risky situations, and relationships are very risky, so . . .. And like one of your other anwerers said, remember, you're 18 years of age, and he's only 20, and both of you are very young, you especially, to be engaged or getting married, or having been married before, so, slow down. There's decades to go in your life. Slow down and enjoy it. You don't have to go into some crashing, flaming, burnout at your age. There's a lot for you to see and live and enjoy. Slow down and enjoy and make better decisions. God Bless you and good luck.
2006-06-05 17:13:12 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and your point???
you boyfriend is in a middle of a war situtation. he is always scary of dieing so he is thinking of his past. and in his past his ex comes before you, otherwise you are the ex and the ex is now the current girlfriend.
if he is coming back soon, then no problems, beside even if your bf wants the ex back, you don't know if the ex has a new boyfriend or not. so don't worry to much. believe in him like he believe in you over here all alone with many guys. a relationships is about trust, beside he doesn't know when he is coming back, so of course he want to take things slow.
you are 18, have you got a job yet?? if not, working a whole year only has 2-3 week vacation. and your bf is a soldier. so vacation is no on his list. so try to understand and trust
2006-06-06 00:10:44 · answer #2 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I want to take things slow" is man-speak for this isn't really gonna go anywhere but I'm too big of a wuss to tell you.I know this because i am a military wife and have spent most of the time the guys have been deployed consoling broken hearted "girlfriends" who got Dear Joan letters almost as soon as they landed in Iraq.It's the easy way out for a weak"boy" who doesn't want to be tied down.
2006-06-06 03:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by jezebel_lilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take Randy D's advice.....it's great !!!!!! Slow down...let him get through one "life changing experience" at a time. He's in the middle of a war. Support him, pray for him, let him know you're there for him. Marriage....that's another "life changing experience" you're both young. SLOW DOWN !!!! Good Luck and God Bless.
2006-06-06 00:34:14 · answer #4 · answered by LindaInNC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you are WAY too young to be engaged....i know you don't agree now, but I swear you'll look back at this in 10 years and know what i'm talking about. Good luck.
2006-06-06 00:07:55 · answer #5 · answered by izzynindie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
turn him loose NOW!! you're too young to waste your time. sorry but just because he's a soldier doesn't make him a good boyfriend.
2006-06-06 00:08:15 · answer #6 · answered by aj607 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him before he leaves you cuse ur goin to waist time waiting on him your 18 move on there's better out there
2006-06-06 00:11:01 · answer #7 · answered by ember420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, it doesnt mean hes seeing her but it wouldnt hurt to do what he ask maybe just for awhile ? then see from there , u r still young yourself .
2006-06-06 00:10:20 · answer #8 · answered by lynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful with that coz he might start cheating on you with his ex its happen to b4
2006-06-06 00:08:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch
2006-06-06 00:07:17 · answer #10 · answered by Clemsonbabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋