im going out with a boy name miguel. everyone says he loves me alot and that they can tell. well this summer he planned to go to mexico with one of our best friend poncho. well he said he's comin back in a week. so i desperatly waited for a week and he never called me, so i decided to call his mom and ask her exactly when are they coming back...his mom said in 15 days. i didnt believe her because ..you know am his gf...
so i accepted the fact that he's comin back in 15 days.
3 days later poncho's brother abraham called me and told me that they have came back but miguel wanted to stay and that miguel said that he loves me but he's comin back in august. i have feeling that he was playing around but i found out it was true.
now that ya have heard the story heres my problem
1. why did he stay back?? is it because he's cheating one me?
2. should i just find another guy? cuz we are not going to the same highschool.
3. what do u think i should do?
2006-06-05 16:55:07 · 10 answers · asked by jessica h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It might be that he is not cheating but doing what I did and just "go with the wind." He's probably having fun getting around and seeing things, but I feel that he should be in contact with you. And whether he is cheating or not, he needs to understand that his selfish behavior is causing you pain. If you tell him that, and he acts like what he's done is no big deal, then I would tell you to let go of him and move on.
2006-06-05 17:00:59 · answer #1 · answered by Awesome Bill 7 · 17⤊ 1⤋
I would say that he has not given you any other choice but to move on with your own life. Unless there was some physical or medical reason that he stayed there, for his family etc, then I could understand it. However, what he has done, has pretty much given a clear picture of whatever he may be doing, has nothing to do with you!! Who cares at this point what he is doing or not doing. I say just take care of yourself and think of yourself now. Move on, move forward, and I wish you all of the best!!! Just remember, though it may hurt, you want to learn from it, grow and believe me, there are lots of fish in the sea, so have fun with it all!
2006-06-05 17:29:03 · answer #2 · answered by Laurie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be he is enjouyng there.And U know wht u cant tie a person with urslf.everyone need time to be happy.He will feel sofocated & ths may end ur relationship
2.See if u thnk Migulel loves u a lot,i thnk u shld not go ahead.But u can make friends.And ths is not necessary to hv a BF
3.U jst chill & njoy the days.Bcoz life is nt a bed of Roses.
ok.Take Care Bye
2006-06-05 18:30:57 · answer #3 · answered by hi5_san 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.) Use proper english and less netspeak
2.) You are very young, teenaged relationships hit snags all the time. Don't freak out beause he hasnt' called, he may not be in a position to call.
3.) Find out from his mother and cousins when he's comming back and ask them to pass messages on for you. If he passes messages back he's got feelings for you.
2006-06-05 17:00:14 · answer #4 · answered by FunnyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off if he stayed he might have family that he has there and decided to stay. if hes cheating on you no one will know but if you have those feelings then you suspect something and you should always go with your gut feeling. i wouldnt find a guy right off just go on about your business and feel things out for a while. when he gets back you can talk to him then and then decide what you need to do from there.
2006-06-05 17:03:31 · answer #5 · answered by s_day97 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
forget bout him its not the end of the world just look at it like this if your pretty and got a great personalitite why worry about that one guy because clearlly thats the way he fills so live it up!
2006-06-05 17:02:55 · answer #6 · answered by rosy_red237736 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look honey if you don;t get the message by now that he wants to ditch you for this other chick, there is something wrong with you get over this dweeb who wouldn't know loyalty if it kicked him in the but, if he truley loved you he wouldn't be doing that!
Find someone else that respects you and your bond of love
2006-06-05 18:14:43 · answer #7 · answered by ozi_nut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the only reason that he stayed back is coz he is shaggen some chick there
2006-06-05 17:00:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEP..... ? Taxes and severe gasoline expenditures *sob* ? Violence, Rape, homicide, Staration, Poverty, Homeless, destructive, Homocide, Genocide, Suicide, conflict!!!!! ? The evilness in human beings's hearts....why is the worldwide like this? They continually make me cry........*sob*
2016-10-15 09:25:03 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends how old both of you are. You better wait for the right guy to come.
2006-06-05 17:00:15 · answer #10 · answered by Charmaine * 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋