i have talked to this guy on the net and on the phone for fives years, yes i love him but he lives in another state, im finally going to meet him for the first time well he also ask me to marry him if everything goes good the first couple of days that im there ( i'll be there for a week) and he keeps telling me that he'll move here but i not sure of i should believe him or not i want to. im not sure what to do can anyone please help me?
2006-06-05 16:52:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm the nicest guy I know (and I'm very humble about it), and if you asked me if you should go and meet me after a few years chatting on the net and talking on the phone, I'd still say you were crazy!
Be extremely careful, and dont expect worlds from first meet of a stranger who has no connection with you or anyone you know who is promising you ANYTHING, especially from a different state.
2006-06-05 17:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by JustJake 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are asking for trouble. Long distance relationships are a bad idea unless one of you either a) has no family or b) hates their family and wants to get away. For b, you may eventually come around to liking your family again-but oops, your in Kentucky now. Think about this seriously before you go moving away. If he moves here, the same thing can happen for him. Blood will always be thicker than water. Think twice before you kiss your loved ones goodbye.
2006-06-05 17:01:28 · answer #2 · answered by Type3Thinker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could always just meet him once and see how things go. If you don't like him, come home and forget about him. If things go okay, let him know you want to take things slowly and see how it goes.
2006-06-05 16:59:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋