what is the easiest way to tell your boyfriend that you are pregnant with out making him weird out?

Answer 1

I am sorry this has happened to you. It is a difficult situation. 34 years ago it happened to me. I did tell my boyfriend and we did get married. AND we got divorced 4 years later and I was a single mom for 7 years. It was really hard. I can only say that if you and your boyfriend are not really in love, have the baby on your own if you can afford it financially. Otherwise, marry him if he feels guilty and have the baby but be prepared for a divorce sooner than later. It seems to be the most common experience.
He may weird out when you tell him, but if he is an honest, good man, he will offer to marry you. If he does not offer to marry you, leave immediately because he is not a good, honest man that it is possible to build a future with. He is just a player if he doesn't step up to the plate. Are you willing to be with a man who plays with other women? Please never do that to yourself or your child. It's like cheating yourself and your child of every goodness that could possibly exist.

Answer 2

I had a strong feeling but wasn't sure so I told my boyfriend I thought I could be and than he was there when I took the test. He was still wierded out when there were two lines and I gave him prior notice.

There is not an easy way to tell a guy whos not expecting it that he's going to be daddy. You guys had sex so he knew it could happen at some point anyway..

Answer 3

I don't really know if there is an easy way to tell him you're pregnant. I guess the only way is to surprise him by showing him a pregnancy test and then ask him if he knows what the difference between yes and no is. That's the method I'd use.

Answer 4

This is what I did: I took a home pregnancy test and then wrapped it, and then told my husband that I had a gift for him., he opened it and then realized that those were the pregnancy results, now, you said boyfriend, so his reaction might be different., you really should not get pregnant when a man has not made you his wife yet... I mean you need to have some respect for yourself and let a man show that to be his baby's mother, you first need to be his wife.... You already starting wrong, giving your child a bad example..

Answer 5

just ask him as in a fun question that if he had a child what would he want to teach the little tyke...
spend a whole "baby afternoon" without being too personal so that he is not already running away..
get him so involved in the discussion..then break it out to him gentally....he may take it better when he is already thinking"baby"

last but not the least.....have courage..at least for the sake of the child..and dont get into a fight!

Answer 6

LOL, I just called my boyfriend, NEW boyfriend at that... and said "ON your way by tonight could you pick me up a home pregnancy test, this one I just took is positive" He responded, "Sure hun" and then I got off the phone. Apparently he fretted the whole time over, but he didn't freak out LOL

Answer 7

Ouch. I don't think there is an easy way to come forward and tell him. If I were you, I would fix a romantic candle lit dinner, get him good and full of food, and then tell him.

Answer 8

You have to let him know slowly, don't just spring on him. You could maybe say a friend of mine is pregnant and see how he reacts to it. Does he praise them or does he insult them. If he insults them then hes probably not ready. once you get that over with come check out my parenting site. http://lindaholota.tripod.com leave a comment if you like.

Answer 9

He's allowed to wierd out a little bit, isn't he?
Did you wierd out when you found out you were pregnant?

It's not the immediate reaction that's important. It's the rest of your life.

Answer 10

Well, he knew the consequences when you were involved in doing the nasty so I don't see why he would weird out...Just tell him straight out..completely honest, and he should take it fine.