2006-06-05 16:48:54 · 15 answers · asked by ggmsixer 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I couldn't and wouldn't. I love the man I'm married to. If you love the other person...how can you betray them? He/She may never find out...but.........you would always know. Can you look them in the eye after betraying them? Could you live with yourself? Would you feel the guilt? Then maybe one day...the guilt builds up, you feel your mate deserves better than what you've given. There goes the relationship. Besides..........."How can you REALLY be SURE you can get away with it?" If it ruins your relationship, you didn't get away with it. Think about it. The grass isn't always greener on the other side. And you usually find a lot of weeds. If the person you want to have an affair with is willing to do this knowing you're cheating....how can they trust you not to cheat on them if it were to lead to more than an affair? Cheating is never the answer. Be true to your man/woman. And....be true to yourself.
2006-06-05 17:01:52 · answer #1 · answered by LindaInNC 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I would NOT, ever!! I have cheated in the past, when I was much younger and during my first marriage, married an older man at 18.
Cheating hurts hearts. I never want someone to hurt my heart so I will NEVER do anything that could possibly hurt someone Else's heart. Plus, I'd have to live with what I did and I can tell you from my own experience that is the hardest part for me.
2006-06-05 16:55:37 · answer #2 · answered by maryannmccarthy2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I've always tried to show my partner that she can trust me no matter what, and she deserves that, so no.
But if Kylie Minogue or Angelina Jolie came and offered, maybe!
All jokes aside, in a previous relationship I was with another girl and I didn't get away with it. I was getting back at her for doing the same thing. ...it wasn't worth it.
2006-06-05 16:55:09 · answer #3 · answered by backpacka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no no no, can not, could not have an affair, even if mate never found out about it. i would know about it, i do not want to live with it on my mind, and or the guilt. wait that would be guilt! dont do any thing you dont want done.
2006-06-05 16:54:50 · answer #4 · answered by waljac6108 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been ther done that and yes.
If ur really careful and plan it just right u can. Why are u thinking about doing it? If so just watch your back and do it someplace ur not likely to run into someone u and ur hubby or b/'f know
2006-06-05 16:52:56 · answer #5 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. And if anyone would say yes to this then they should get a divorce or counciling, because they are being unfair to their spouse.
2006-06-05 16:51:46 · answer #6 · answered by otexasgirlo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away with it? You can get away with not getting caught, you can't get away with how it makes you feel about yourself when it is all said and done.
2006-06-05 16:53:28 · answer #7 · answered by peskygnats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not.
Not under any circumstances, whatsoever.
Because YOU would always know, and it would affect your relationship.
2006-06-05 16:51:28 · answer #8 · answered by double_nubbins 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I love and respect my wife to much to do that to her. Even if she didn't know. I would know that I did do it.
2006-06-05 16:54:12 · answer #9 · answered by Sander 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope .Learned my lesson ages ago.The guilt is terrible to live with
2006-06-05 16:56:33 · answer #10 · answered by changeling 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋