I'm 16 and I had sex with my boyfriend after knowing him for about two weeks. It was both of our first times. And when we met the first time it was for a date because we were kind of set up. So it seems like maybe it was just expected of us to like each other.. and start holding hands and whatever.. it didn't just happen naturally. We do not really have a connection.. like we arent all comfortable around eachother and able to talk to eachother...it seems more physical. But I love being with him and stuff. I am so confused about how I feel. Like he is almost a stranger to me. I just wanted to know some people's opinions on our relationship and where it may be headed.
2006-06-05 16:14:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2006-06-05 16:22:16 · answer #1 · answered by fun_guy_otown 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hate to tell you but you made a huge decision too young and your also unsure the both of you, my first time was a few years ago I wanted to wait until I was married but it didn't happen I'm 23 and I lost my virginity to my first boyfriend at 21, we just broke up but I know we may get back together some day, were just having some issues we need to work on, but sex can ruin a relationship because you don't know if that's why the person is with you or not, and you start to feel used, and even now I wish I could go back because thinking about what happened to us he cheated, it makes me feel bad and hurt because I gave him all of me and I haven't been with anyone else, and now I feel like well I felt like I wouldn't have anything else to give anyone else but I will and so will you,Love, just stop having sex your not ready, and you don't want to bring a child into this world while your so confused, it's never too late to start over.
2006-06-05 16:29:08 · answer #2 · answered by **Keisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend will answer this: Right now he most likely brags to all of his friends about you saying how easy you are. Now I'm a guy, so believe me when I say you're on the road to being labeled a ho. But if you stop having sex, and get to know him better, maybe you'll see that you like him. If not move on and dont be so easy. If every guy you get with has sex with you that quick, you're not gonna be able to find a decent boyfriend because you'll have a reputation for being a ho. Sorry to be so honest...but, for real.
2006-06-05 16:36:32 · answer #3 · answered by Bay Area Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop. Everytime you have sex with someone you leave a part of yourself with that person. That is why all of us feel sort of down and out when sex comes into a relationship and it does not work. Keep yourself to yourself until you really know the time is right.
2006-06-05 16:34:57 · answer #4 · answered by Tom R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it definately can
2006-06-05 16:28:31 · answer #5 · answered by Minnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WUT IS 2+2 ??
2006-06-05 16:39:42 · answer #6 · answered by Valerie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋