We had sex last week. I passed with flying colours on my exam and now i i feel as if i cheated and im feeling guilty. any life experiance out there that can help????
2006-06-05 16:10:01 · 27 answers · asked by Lana S 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Don't listen to any of this bullshit about talking to a counsellor. Just keep it quiet and enjoy your A. Besides, you are 18 if you're in university. Like the one guy said, you don't get ahead by playing fair.
2006-06-07 22:06:08 · answer #1 · answered by Nishant G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lern some self respect. Contrary to the brainwashing you've been getting from our modern culture there will be negative concequences physical and spiritual from just having sex like it's nothing. You are a human being not just an animal with no self control no matter how much people tell you the contrary and you are responsible for your own actions.
Value your self more and quit making dumb decitions. A few minutes of pleasure can give you a lifetime of Hell on earth and I'm talking from experience.
BY THE WAY, HONEY YOU ARE NOT THE TRASH IN THIS SITUATION. THE TRASH IS THAT PERVERT TEACHER!!! HE'S OBVIOUSLY A PREDATOR WHO SAW THAT YOU WERE VOUNERABLE AND TOOK ADVANTAGE OF YOU. THERE IS NO WAY I'M GOING TO TELL YOU TO STAY QUIET LIKE EVERYONE ELSE IS HERE SPECIALY IF YOU ARE UNDER 18. THAT SICKO TEACHER NEEDS TO BE LOCKED UP AND NOT TEACHING. I BET YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY STUDENT HE'S ABUSED AND I GUARANTEE YOU WON'T BE THE LAST. THAT IS TERRIFYING!!! AND DEEFENATELY TALK TO SOMEONE YOU TRUST IF YOU NEED TO, DON'T KEEP THIS ABUSE TO YOURSELF.
2006-06-05 23:18:49 · answer #2 · answered by rpookycath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you should feel guilty. I'd say to NEVER do that again and move on and don't get into another situation like that. Not only that but the teacher can also get into a lot of serious trouble with the university
2006-06-05 23:13:30 · answer #3 · answered by Julie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u had the choice 2 sleep with him or not sleep with him, all u can do is change his class and perhaps ask to redo the exam, dont sleep with him again at least change fom his class and tell sum one about it but also i must admit he shouldnt prey on young gurls and he needs 2 b put away as he new wat he was doin!!! he was just taking adavantage of u, but really u shouldnt have slept with him, it's ova an dun with now the only thing u can do is tell sumone and change outta his class better yet change uni but that would be hard
2006-06-06 07:13:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl.. quit while you are ahead. It's just like lying... once you tell a lie then you have to tell another one to cover up the first one..then another to cover up the other ones... If you don't stop now you may be in a predicament that you just can't get out of.
2006-06-05 23:20:04 · answer #5 · answered by candice c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to choose prostitution (which you have), at least raise your prices.
Also, report him to the University for scamming on young niave students. You are not likely to be the first or the last that the predator has scammed this way.
2006-06-05 23:15:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a counsellor, preferably outside the university, possibly a family priest, etc. and talk to them.
Unless he's in a personal relationship with you, this is not good for you.
Ciao...
2006-06-05 23:14:10 · answer #7 · answered by B'Dub 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice it too keep it quiet..you feel guilty you might try to find someone to confide in.... DONT! Just keep the whole thing to yoru self before it blows up~
2006-06-05 23:15:17 · answer #8 · answered by geet840 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ride the gravy train as long as you can. No pun intended. And use condoms. You dont get ahead by playing fair.
2006-06-05 23:14:03 · answer #9 · answered by crazypsychorapist 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your teacher to remark your exam fairly.
2006-06-05 23:42:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋