2006-06-05 16:05:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, I have tried everthing that you guys have recommended. Maybe I am just meant to be tortured. I just want all of my friends to get along with each other. I'm an idiot. **sobs uncontrollably** **sigh** I need to be alone. Please somebody tell me wats wrong with me!
2006-06-05 16:17:04 · update #1
Ok, let me make myself clear. My friends are as stubborn and controlling as mules. If they can't have me to themsleves, nobody can! I think taht my persona is so like weird that it makes them believe that I am a-a um- really important thingy ma giger. I'm confused. X , X; I think that I play too much. Don't you comment on that.
2006-06-05 16:29:57 · update #2
Stay neutral,you don't have to take sides.
2006-06-05 16:19:23 · answer #1 · answered by Alion 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still be friends with both. Just don't allow them to bad mouth each other to you & let them both know that u still love them both and that u wish they could still be friends but u respect the fact that they rather not and ur not gonna play sides. And if evr there is a time when u may have to decide whci one tohand out with because they both have something fun to do on the saty day u may not go with either. Because u don't want to make the other mad at u.
2006-06-05 23:10:43 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it. Remember that you like your friends for different reasons and that you are all individuals. Make sure that they both know that you refuse to take sides and don't get involved in the rumor spreading that always follows a friend breakup.
2006-06-05 23:09:14 · answer #3 · answered by lunalutz22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first see if there is any way they are willing to resolve the problem they have with each other or you can host an activity and invite them both. but if that doesnt work im afraid you're going to have to let them go their seperate ways and see what happens. sometimes they might even grow closer together on their own.
2006-06-05 23:10:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain how you feel to both of them. that way, you are more unlikely to find yourself in a situation where they badmouth each other. the only thing you need to do though, is to NEVER, ever talk about one of the friends badly about the other one. you never know, they may become friends again, and you will end up with the short end o' the stick.
2006-06-05 23:10:22 · answer #5 · answered by *kings* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to choose. Be friends with both of them. You 3 just can't hang out together. No biggie. Make time for both friends! But don't pick favorites.. then they will get mad.
2006-06-05 23:08:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax.... be cool to both of them. just make sure you dont mention eachother in conversation. either it'll pass over or you'll end up hanging out with one more than the other
2006-06-05 23:09:10 · answer #7 · answered by olympikdude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a friend to your friend and be a girlfriend to your boyfriend just not at the same time
2006-06-05 23:08:27 · answer #8 · answered by toosexy4thisshit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of whatever is going on between them. tell them that you like them both. and you are not picking sides. are help both of them work through this. . but i think i would stay out of that problem.
2006-06-05 23:09:30 · answer #9 · answered by bondablegreeneyes2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See them seperately, you don't have to choose. All will be satisfied & comfortable with that solution.
2006-06-05 23:12:13 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋