2006-06-05 16:00:38 · 31 answers · asked by ggmsixer 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If by this question, are you saying that "if I had to do it again, knowing what I do now"
ABSOLUTELY!!!
I would get down on my knees and BEG my wife to marry me again!!
(Whether she would be silly enough, to do it again, knowing what she does now, and if she had to do it again, is another opinion, I would not want to know...).
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-06-05 16:05:05 · answer #1 · answered by x 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes, I would. Even if it didn't work out the first time... bk there had to be something that got you guys together in the first place! You guys probably just needed some time to grow and to learn about each other. Sometimes it just takes two people to separate, then start all over and get to know one another through friendship again, just to know they really love each other. Think about it, when you first met, you guys are all nice to each other, after you guys got married, all the common courtesy, and respect just seems to fade away, whatever the reason, maybe it's all the arguing... Then somewhere down the road, you guys decides to break up, and that's when you guys are back thinking where did it all go wrong? Thinking back if you should of done things differently? Thinking maybe you should of done this and that.. be more nice, be more considerate...That is the reason why when people broken up, and now are friends again, they are back nice to each other. When you guys should of keep that respect the whole way through the relationship.
I think if you really care for that person, it's worth a second try. unless there was some type of physically or emtionally abuse. Then that is a different case!
But if it's just communication problems, or just didn't get along the first time, try again if they are willing too, and just remember that instead of thinking about doing things differently, just do it this time, and keep that respect for each other no matter what. Good Luck!
2006-06-05 16:21:19 · answer #2 · answered by Chynnah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know what went wrong the first time you was married?
If the answer is no. then your dooming your self to a second helping of what you went through before ( was it a plesant divorce?)
if your serious about it try this suggestion.
Read the following Books as a couple ( YES TOGETHER)
make notes and compare them see how you both feel now that the
( sexual lust has cooled a bit )
Smart Love By Dr. Phil
His Needs, Her Needs, By Willard Harley Jr.
The 5 Love Languages, By Chapman
then look at the situation and see how you feel about it.
At least now you will have (ALL) the information
Be able to see what went wrong in the marriage the first time
and be prepared to handle the situations that will hit you in the future.
God Bless
2006-06-05 17:19:36 · answer #3 · answered by Sully 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably no. Though married 17 years, not a year has passed that I haven't been tempted to leave. That's odd, I know, but I married a friend, and it's been more like being married to a sister. If I hadn't had the kind of encouragement from a very particular source as I did have, I don't think I'd have married my wife. I had other possibilities for women to marry, yet she was always there, she hung in there when I dated others; so I never got involved with them. Only one woman who I'd dated before I started seeing my wife would have changed my mind if she had come back on the scene earlier than she did. Unfortunately, she was a lot like my previous wife; which my present wife is nothing like--not in bad ways, but not in the good ways, either. Alas!
By the way, I do love my wife. Yet it is much a filial love without true romantic feeling. It is a friendly, good natured love, but it lacks passion and spontaneity. It is a love confirmed in my mind, rather than in my heart. Again, alas!
2006-06-05 16:36:13 · answer #4 · answered by Nightwriter21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly would, as long as he decided to pick up his dirty socks and underwear hehe.
I can't really explain it, but I love him more now, even after all the closet baggage you find in the first few years. I don't know how I could say no, when I said yes and only loved him a fraction compared to now. It is all so confusing... Love that is.
There is so much more to it than that though, the financial commitment, the kids, the dog. Life certainly adapts itself for marriage. Besides, he has cool stuff. I like to share it.
2006-06-05 18:49:44 · answer #5 · answered by jen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would firmly disagree with the renewal of your wedding vows since you have been divorce .Leopards don't change their spots. If he wasn't below the age of 25 at the time of your marriage then he's possibly set in his ways and is disguising his true character. The reason for your separation in the first place should be the very reason why you don't go back. Don't allow your mind to play tricks on you.
2006-06-05 16:12:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-06-05 16:02:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would reamarry my husband of almost 8 yrs not because I knew him well but because I love him. I could know nothing about him but Jesus put us together and we dated a month and got married right after dating and now 7 almost 8 yrs later we are more in love now then ever before.
2006-06-05 16:05:40 · answer #8 · answered by momof_12003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES Absolutely!
2006-06-05 16:10:42 · answer #9 · answered by sweetmikki32 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? The only reason to marry, or remarry is true love.
2006-06-05 16:03:33 · answer #10 · answered by runner45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely, We have been married 13 years and we have a better relationship now than we have ever had. I'm looking forward to the next 13 years.
2006-06-05 16:13:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋