???????? What do I say what do I do????????
2006-06-05 15:58:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Be upfront, but if your scared ask for his e-mail address first with the excuse that your in a hurry and you'll just ask him what you wanted to ask him later online. He shouldn't think anything of it, unless I guess you've never spoken at all to each other. Then proceed to ask him out online through e-mail. Be sure to explain that you were shy about asking him out in school. This way if he says no at least you didn't have to worry about dealing with people around when you asked him. As far as what happpens afterwards, its no different then if you asked him directly.
2006-06-05 16:06:08 · answer #1 · answered by Persephone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't I know girls want to do things "new school" but don't because one day you'll be asking yourself did he really like me? I don't care guys need to take the initiative even if their shy, because if he likes you he'll tell you some day, just wait and if you want you can drop some hints(smile, laugh at his jokes, but not like a psycho) but don't be direct, be mysterious and easy going not easy, I was so shy and guys always approached me but that didn't mean they had a chance.
2006-06-05 16:04:28 · answer #2 · answered by **Keisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best is to be honest and tell him how you feel and what you would like. Don't tell him in front of his friends or the phone the best way is face to face. And if anything the worst that can happen is if he says no.
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2006-06-05 16:01:59 · answer #3 · answered by colombiana909 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a friend of his that you are friends with to call him and ask him. tell the friend to ask if the guy likes you if he is not sure have the other guy say she is hot or whatever he likes then maybe he wont be shy to say
then start talking and say like oh so you like me cuz i like you too!
um will you go out with me? maybe we can get to know me more!
make sure you are on the phone though!
it worked for me!!!!!
2006-06-05 16:06:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it you want a guy, first make sure he's available because if he's not, it could get ugly. but then start hanging out with him. after that he could start to like you then maybe he'll ask you instead. but if he doesn't, just go for it and see what happens. you never know, he could say yes!
2006-06-05 16:00:53 · answer #5 · answered by Peyton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not ask directly - you'll scare him.
Have a chat with him at school - during break, in cafeteria or in the library. If he keeps talking, ask if he wants to go have ice-cream together. then lunch. then dinner or movies. then just hang out.
2006-06-05 15:59:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out a few times and let him get to know you and be around you and then start droppin ghim hints if it feels right
2006-06-05 16:03:41 · answer #7 · answered by Julie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt ever ask a guy to be your boyfriend, instead do what girls do best; flirt, smile, laugh at his jokes. He should get the hint.
2006-06-05 16:01:56 · answer #8 · answered by Bay Area Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look him in the eye, deep breath & say
"Be my boyfriend, please".
Good luck now get on with it! Be brave.
2006-06-05 16:01:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to make sure he likes you first bc if when you ask and he says no and doesnt like you you will be crushed. its happened me. when you get ready to ask him and your standing in front of him you will probably know what to do and say
2006-06-05 16:02:39 · answer #10 · answered by RollnStones77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋