Why do ex girlfriends have to be so jealous?

Question

Since I got married,my ex g/f has been weird and won't leave me alone. Restraining order may be happining.

Yes I left her.And she tries doing things like talking to me on yahoo under different names but I know it's her,thing is, it goes awhile with nothing, then BOOM, it happens again.

Answer 1

Women are catty, hun It's not about you. Its about the *competition* thing. You could be a hairy smelly hobbit... your wife could be Jabba the hut.... it wouldn't matter in the least. Your ex's reaction would be the same.

The actual sad truth is that a woman need not have ever met your wife in order to consider her the *opposing* team. All it takes, is for you to paint a super model/saint like image of your wife in a woman's mind. That is sometimes enough to unwittingly start a competition. I have personally, on several occasions throughout my life, found myself being verbally attacked by women I hardly knew because men who were never *boyfriends* but were close friends to me referred to me in kind or flattering terms to other women. Within the last few years, when ever that has happened, and it has happened a lot, the first thing I do is call my male friends and ask them *Who is this woman and why did you tell her about me?*

When you got married, you became a challenge. Get used to it. I tell all my male friends, "If you wanna pick up chicks for quickie one-nighters... get a wallet-sized photo of a gorgeous woman... put it in your wallet. Take it to a club with you.. show it around and tell other women that it's your wife and you are madly in love and would never cheat because your wife is "Different and special"... Women will be clawing eachother's eyes out for a chance to try to be the *one* who could make you change your mind.

Your ex isn't reacting to jealousy.. she is reacting to a feeling that your wife somehow won something she couldnt win. Looks like she doesn't understand that the game is over... she's still playing.

Answer 2

perhaps she is upset that u did not marry her. obviously she does not want you happy because she is not happy that u are with some one else. remember u dumped her. she feels humiliated and wants to do the best to see you go down like she did. let her know that she is pathedic. restarining orders are not all they are cracked up to be. file a police report and then get an order of protection for you and your wife. even if u have to lie about it. tell them that she threatened your life as well as your wifes life and you are scared. once the order of protection goes in if she viloates it she can very well recieve jail time. the restraining order bit means nothing. people violate those all the time and get away with it with out being arrested. good luck

Answer 3

Its always hard to get over relationships. I'm betting you broke up with her? Get a restraining order if it comes to that, but first just make it clear that its over and you have a wife. Tell her you dont want to be involved in her life any more.

Answer 4

You need to get a restraining order quickly jealous women are dangerous and you don't need to take even chances with this ex girlfriend once you get the restaining order she will get the point you are not playing with her that you are serious and you move on with your life and she needs to do the same. good luck!

Answer 5

it particularly is general for a woman. yet what i advise is do on no account tell those jealousy thoughts to him. Don’t even sound like u r jealous. previous is previous, and it particularly is over. It shouldn’t situation u. adult adult males r extra like they wont experience solid in case you don’t have confidence him in each thing. each silly concern they'll do, and if u show have confidence, they are going to be with u basically.

Answer 6

Dude I have no idea!! I guess that's just the way we chicks are!, I bet is the whole, i can't have you but I want you kind of thing. She probably still cares about you a lot

Answer 7

its like the chick from waynes world..maybe shes just annoying or something tell her to piss off though or get your wife into the picture. thatll keep her back..hell hath no fury like a womans wrath as they say

Answer 8

its coz girls present themselves with our hearts on our sleves and it will take time to heal.....did you break up with her??? tell her that you have gone your own ways and that you would feel more comfortable if she didn't try and contact you anymore!!! and if she keeps stalking you then get a restraining order.

Answer 9

BECAUSE SHE SEES WHAT SHE COULD HAVE HAD NOW SHE FEELS STUPID AND LEFT OUT BECAUSE YOU HAVE WENT ON WITH YOUR LIFE SO ALL SHE CAN DO IS PLAY CHILDISH LITTLE GAMES IN HOPES OF GETTING YOUR ATTENTION JUST IGNORE HER BECAUSE IF YOU FEED INTO WHAT SHE IS DOING THINGS WILL ONLY GET WORST....

Answer 10

Because you didn't marry her she feel that the one you married is better than her