I am finally loving someone whom i know loves me in return.Odds are i can't have him.i was married before and i don't believe in divorce.i am torn up on the inside because of the detour life has taken before introducing me to true love.i don't want to let go of our friendship, but i don't want to commit adultery either.help!!!
2006-06-05 15:40:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Forget him. Your religion comes first, so that means you can't be friends either. It will lead to sin. Listen to what GOD is telling you or you will pay for your sins.
2006-06-05 16:04:58 · answer #1 · answered by silhouette 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Are you still married or are you divorced now? It says "I was married before". I take that to mean you are not currently married.
Research the whole adultery thing thoroughly. If you still believe that to be adultery, even though you are now divorced, then keep on looking because you can't go against your beliefs.
You have to ask yourself some deep questions. Do you truly believe it to be adultery or is that just what you hear in church? Would God send you someone that is your soul mate if it were adultery?
If I remember correctly, there are reasons in the christian faith that you can get a divorce. Check it out, do a lot of studying of different bibles and talk to some more people in other churches as well. Find your belief and go with it. I wouldn't do anything that was against my beliefs. You will regret it.
If you are currently married, then just forget him. That is obviously adultery.
2006-06-05 15:50:35 · answer #2 · answered by MissCan'tBeWrong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were married but do not believe in divorce? Which is it? Let me guess, you are still married but not with your husband. How is that christian? If you are not divorced how is it while still married you managed to fall in true love outside of marriage?
You really should examine your religious beliefs and reconcile your life to them OR get over the divorce thing get it done and go on to a new relationship. I'm not much for any religion which prohibits one from being truly happy in the confines of a monogamous committed marriage. Even if it means getting away from the unhappy one.
2006-06-05 16:22:27 · answer #3 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your pastor about this and see what they say. If he is not good for you and you want to commit adultery then steer clear for a while. Why do you not believe in divorce if i may ask... Why are you seperated to begin with? You may also want to seek counseling for this.
2006-06-05 23:29:50 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you did commit adultery, this person would no longer be the person that you think you are in love with. He would be just another cheater. And so would you.
2006-06-05 15:49:27 · answer #5 · answered by mandarn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lusting huh
you know what is said abou that
your are being tested or your faith is weak and thus your wandering eye
2006-06-05 17:01:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋