Hey my father is orginally from mexico. he feels soo tired and bored, disappointed, etc.. and tired cause he has done backbreaking work since about 30 years ago in usa. He wants to go back at 60( 3 more years) to mexico and live there forever never come back. He said he will sell the house we live at now, ..and i'm not going to go cause mexico's just not for me. I'm 26 currently no job.. no savings, and i have bunch of debt( school loans). If my mom and dad leave, i will remain homeless. But i can avoid it if i can mature now..before all this happens. I'm such a **** . gosh , how can i deal with this? i'm looking for work, just don't know how..ccause what i'm doing apparently not effective. Then my father has trucks, apartments he owns... and etcc.. i'm gonna stay alone to deal with a bunch of crap that i don't even want..
has anyone had this before? Then also, add to that i'm going to be alone.. mentally and emotionally very lonely.. i'm not sure what to do.. help?
2006-06-05 15:37:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
How hard have you been looking for a job? What is your education in. You have 3 years to get yourself together. Start tomorrow. You need to get yourself a job so that you can start repaying your student loans, and am able to support yourself.
If your father has apartments, why can't you stay in one of these? Or if he's going to leave you in charge of the apartments, hire a manager and have him or her deal with the tenants, and collect the rent, and repairs. You will have a home and someone to mange it.
You are 26 years old, when do yo plan on "growing up"? Now is the time. Don't you have any friends? You may be able to meet people when you get your job. Your mom and dad are just a phone call away. Then when you get your benefits at your job, you can take a vacation to visit them.
2006-06-05 15:45:02 · answer #1 · answered by oman396 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So, you are an adult and have been living off the hatd work of your elderly father. Stop acting like a spoiled child, and get a job and take some responsibility for your own life. Your father is tired of supporting you.
2006-06-05 15:42:20 · answer #2 · answered by judy_r8 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If Dad's a beaner, that would have entitled you to free college. In fact, free everything. I think you should go back to where the poop runs freely in the streets. You could sell Chiclets. It would be like, an ephipany!
2006-06-07 02:35:06 · answer #3 · answered by Hippie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why can't you work like the rest of us?you sound like you want everybody else to do the work and you get the benefits from others being a slave how can you look at yourself in the mirror.
2006-06-06 00:12:21 · answer #4 · answered by grayladygranny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GROW UP...it's not as hard as you think and you're going to have to do it one day, the sooner---the better...the longer you delay it the longer you will be miserable.
2006-06-05 15:43:23 · answer #5 · answered by yvonnejust4today 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋