What would you do if your boyfriend/girlfriend went out by themselves with another girl/guy (even if they told you they were doing it)
2006-06-05 15:31:40 · 18 answers · asked by Beth 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Depends on where they went. Did they go to the grocery store or did they go to a movie or a club? Actually, I don't think it matters if you made it clear that you were uncomfortable with it. Then it is a direct violation of your feelings. Tell his *** off and tell him he can go anywhere he wants to with the ***** just don't expect you to be waiting for him when he returns!
2006-06-05 15:39:10 · answer #1 · answered by beckini 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I'm confident and secure enough to know that it would be harmless, or they wouldn't be doing it. Or I would be able to tell by their tone of voice when they told me, how they felt about the person they were going to hangout with. Just cuz the other person has the opposite body part, doesn't mean the reason they are going to hangout with the person is to connect that way. If you can't trust your other, you they shouldn't be your other.
2006-06-05 22:40:55 · answer #2 · answered by slee z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he told you, I don't suppose it is cheating. But it sounds like you need to come to some kind of understanding. The rules of your relationship are between you and your boyfriend. He obviously does not believe that the two of you are going steady. You need to find out where you stand. Best of luck to you.
2006-06-05 22:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Bodhisattva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the situation. If they have been friends forever, I say it's totally ok, I hate it when a jealous girlfriend breaks up a friendship. I would just be suspicious if he recently met her and refused to let you go along/get to know her too.
2006-06-05 22:35:43 · answer #4 · answered by globula 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's no reason a guy can't be alone with another girl and if you are feeling insecure or feeling jealous- and after talking to him about your feelings and you still feel threathened by other women- wither you have a problem you need counseling for or you are with the wrong guy.
2006-06-05 22:36:46 · answer #5 · answered by ladyofthehollow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you trust him around other girls. If you answer yes, don't worry about it. If no, you shouldn't be with him in the first place. Trust is rule #1 in relationships.
2006-06-05 22:36:41 · answer #6 · answered by Brad K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hate that. I would probably forbid it. But if you really trust your guy and he told you about it then it is probably OK as long as he doesnt make it a regular thing.
2006-06-05 22:44:30 · answer #7 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe these two are just friends but even so if that was the case they could bring you along, but if two people are not friends and has a significant other than doing this is wrong
2006-06-05 22:35:28 · answer #8 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If there's trust in the relationship you should be able to trust him and he shouldn't lie to you. It would probably depend on where they were going, why they were going there, and how secure or insecure I was in the relationship.
2006-06-05 22:39:13 · answer #9 · answered by Nico 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on where they went, its probably fine. Its only cheating on you if he has sex. You don't own him, and can't force him to spend his time with only you. And its not like he lied about it.
2006-06-05 22:36:11 · answer #10 · answered by judy_r8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋