Awhile back my boyfriend of 2 years confessed that he was bisexual. At 1st i didn't belive him but just by the way he told me i knew he was serious. i asked him would he cheat on me w/ another male he said no. is it really possible to want only females after you have been dating males and females?
2006-06-05 15:20:49 · 34 answers · asked by Scooter 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sorry, this guy has too much emotional baggage. He is also good at keeping secrets. NEXT! PS Have a STD test done asap. Just to be sure.
2006-06-05 15:22:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do all the time. Just because he's bi doesn't change anything. If you two are seriously in love, then I guarantee that he wont' cheat on you with another man. The only good thing that comes out of dating a bi male, is the fact that you can have a threesome with two men. Although, girls don't like that too much. I don't know why. But, you just have to trust him that he won't cheat, and give him the same in return.
2006-06-05 15:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by TommyBoy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get real ! I think you answered your own question. Leave him!! You deserve better, he told you this for a reason. Don't walk, but run to your doctor and make sure you're not infected with any disease (s). Life is too short to be sharing a man with any male or female... That's the problem with women today, too gullible, too lonely and too naive; that's why men cheat because, women allow them to by taking them back, over and over again...Your man wants what he wants when he wants it, whether it's you today, a man tomorrow, another female the next...the decision ends with you.
2006-06-05 15:32:08 · answer #3 · answered by motherkc 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I were in your shoes, I'd break up with him. As has already been stated, a lot of bi-sexual guys end up deciding that they're homosexual.
Also, I have several bi-sexual male friends and I've learned that bi-sexuals are allowed to have both a boyfriend and a girlfriend at the same time, so you couldn't really expect your boyfriend to stay away from guys. If you can deal with sharing him, more power to you, but I personally like to have my guy all to myself. Boyfriends are one thing you're not supposed to have to share =]
2006-06-05 15:33:57 · answer #4 · answered by smalltowngirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not break up with him for just that reason unless you really don't agree with that. If he is loyal and don't cheat on you in any way I wouldn't see any need to worry. Besides if you are into the three way action you will have 2 guys to your self. Just a suggestion.
2006-06-05 15:27:39 · answer #5 · answered by fiji2litre 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, he waited so long to tell you that's unfair to you and I would be pissed, you have to move on, I don't know if he still is(bisexual) but still he should have told you, and I don't know about the whole I'm changed thing, people change but it's up to you if that's okay, make a good choice think about your health and future first and if it doesn't work out, you'll find someone else.
2006-06-05 15:26:59 · answer #6 · answered by **Keisha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He isn't being honest with you about other males .Confessing to you , was a way for him to relieve some of his guilt .This is a thing you can't compete with . Besides getting AIDS or other disease-what kind of happiness could you possibly have for a future with this man ?
2006-06-05 15:26:11 · answer #7 · answered by missmayzie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, wot u shud do now is find out hw many men he has gone out with before u and while he has been with u( just in case)... personally i wont be able to go out with a bi, but if u love him then u "need" for him to make a PROMISE to u that he will never go out with a guy while u guys are going out...u need to be a little tough on him..... if ur man really wants to change then he can, cos he is the only one who can change himself...if u trust him the nothing is impossible but if u have a feeling that intuition than u need to have a word with him and tell him how ui feel... and c where u guys go from there....
2006-06-05 15:34:26 · answer #8 · answered by beautysexychick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would break up with him, but thats just me. I wouldnt want to feel like the person I was with had desires that I could never fulfill, AND I would always be worrying that he was going to end up gay. It seems like bisexual guys always end up being gay. Bisexual is just a stop on the way.
2006-06-05 15:23:21 · answer #9 · answered by Lilia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well when you are bisexual it is possible that females and males are attracted to the guy because he can be gay and still wants to be with a girl.
2006-06-05 15:24:55 · answer #10 · answered by Shirley l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋