i have been with my boyfriend for a year now. we love each other but I have so many worries even though i trust him. am i just scared of commitment? im not used to being with someone for as long as ive been with him and he is really sweet. I havent cheated on him...yet but im scared that i will. am i doing this b/c i dont trust him or i think that we will break up soon? I dont even do it on purpose so what do u think i am scared of?
2006-06-05 15:18:38 · 8 answers · asked by n2ffn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i have been in relationships for longer and ended up cheating. but not getting caught. we just ended up breaking up.
2006-06-05 15:23:35 · update #1
and it isint my first love
2006-06-05 15:24:10 · update #2
Since you have so many doubts, you also know in your heart that its not time to get serious. Since he is so sweet, he will not try to rush you into something you aren't ready for either. I suggest you just keep the relationship on a slow pace and really get to know each other before worrying about a real commitment from either of you.
2006-06-05 15:31:08 · answer #1 · answered by bifun83687 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U no what it all depends on who u are. I have been in a 2 year relationship now and at first you could say that we both only trusted each other to a certain point. But once we both found out how each other feels and where we wanted the relationship to go, it has been smooth sailing. The only reason why you should be scared of commitment is he brings (brought) it up and you don't feel the say way. Talk to him see what he has to say.
Also it seems to me that if your thinking about cheating on him then you it looks like you should end the relationship before you do. Because if you were happy in the relationship you wouldn't think thoughts like that. Review your relationship with your boyfriend and make sure that you really want to be with him and only him.
P.S. If you want to know when to get serious you have to talk to your boyfriend and see if he is on the same page.
2006-06-05 22:34:14 · answer #2 · answered by Scooter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r scared u will get hurt like most girls r. your afraid he will dump u and leave u alone. not to sound harsh. ease into to trusting him and u wont get hurt as bad. but hun, one way or another if u and him dont work out because of him or u someone will get hurt. but it could work out perfect.
2006-06-05 22:25:05 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sound like ur 1st love Right
2006-06-05 22:20:56 · answer #4 · answered by Hea Dude ! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are scared of being an adult and taking responsibility for your own actions. It's okay. Just learn and grow. We all make mistakes. That's how we learn and grow.............
2006-06-05 22:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by ocean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur having second thoughts about that you should really think about it, before taking any action.
2006-06-05 22:23:35 · answer #6 · answered by wal16j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on the couple. it's different with everyone. But mostly when it feels right to you
2006-06-05 22:22:29 · answer #7 · answered by Julie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when it feels right. a year isn't long enough if you ask me.
2006-06-05 22:20:13 · answer #8 · answered by embigguns 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋