2006-06-05 15:18:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
we were together on and off 4 9yrs we finally commited i got pregnant when i got ready to go into labor he left hes there for his daughter but left me i dont get it he was calling me asking me do i miss him but i didnt say yes i said your daughter! now hes always throwing up in my face that he dont want to be with me i dont mention it to him so what the ehll is he thinking in my heart o hearts i love this man with all my might i dont want nobody else but him hes the one i love truly whats wrong with me
2006-06-05 15:28:08 · update #1
to clear what you guys think: we were on the low because him and my brother were right hand man when my brother went up north we got together offical because we werent scared anymore i had his baby he left but was wondering if i missed him the sad thing is i love him to death and i cant help it i want to be with him AM I STUPID?
2006-06-06 11:44:18 · update #2
loving is the easy part,,,forgiving is the hard part.!
2006-06-05 15:21:01 · answer #1 · answered by fraser_norton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The time that you shared isn't going to go away the minute he left you. It takes time for a wound to heal. Use the time that is given to you. Don't call him don't pressure him.
Always remember if you love him let him go, if he was meant to be with you he'll come back, if not, he was never yours to begin with.
Easier said than done, but try!!
2006-06-05 15:22:34 · answer #2 · answered by ronce_1118 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as my godly mama always said "love is forgiving" if u loved him u wouldve forgave him if he loved u he wouldntve left u say it was ON AND OFF FOR 9YRS yall shouldve left it like that the 1st time yall split he wanted u back but u refused and u call that luv!!!
2006-06-05 15:49:27 · answer #3 · answered by lil'Amos 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your idea of love is grossly misguided and misplaced. Too bad you had a baby with this person. The warning signs were there early, were they not?
2006-06-05 15:22:27 · answer #4 · answered by ocean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well at least, u know that u wouldn't take what a new life beed...u didn't take his father. good 4 u, find other guy gal
u deerve the best one!!!
good luck honey
2006-06-05 15:23:54 · answer #5 · answered by chila_vie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His new born baby? Not enough info.
2006-06-05 15:23:57 · answer #6 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With all your heart and understanding
2006-06-05 15:21:45 · answer #7 · answered by toosexy4thisshit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change who you love.
2006-06-05 15:49:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
impossible to love, he obviously does not know what love is.
2006-06-05 15:21:21 · answer #9 · answered by hotsing1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋