I dated a white girl in the past, She was very much in to the "Black Culture" however I called her once and her phone picked up with out her knowing and she was cursing out a Black man and said to him "I hate U Effin monkeys "
after that I hung up. she later called me and was telling me how much she loved me and I couldnt
understand how she canloveme after what I just heard,
2006-06-05 15:15:52 · 27 answers · asked by oreoniggakrackerspikginnychink 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Politics
I believe that you got lucky to see her true colors.
In general, I believe that a black person has no choice but to think about the Black Culture. It defines them.
A white person generally does not think about the subject on their own, but must learn it through their black friends.
White in itself does not define a single, simple culture. The person might be Italian, and deal with many Italian family and cultural identifications. An Irish person has an entirely different set of culture characteristics. The person might be catholic, Jewish, protestant. It simply is not a single white-ended culture. In fact, many of these blended characteristics cause boils within a family structure.
2006-06-05 15:26:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You just dumped her without finding out who she was talking to or about?! In case you are in a new world, there are no video phones on the market widely used yet! Therefore you cant tell what RACE she was talking to and if she was even talking to or about another person! Yes us white people do care about black people if you care about us. I have never said anything like that before or ever will. You should have told her you heard her on the phone and had her clarify what happened before just dumping her without an explaination. At least tell her why you dumped her!
2006-06-05 15:25:21 · answer #2 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's more of a woman issue than a race one. Women try to learn you and will find the thing that pisses you off the most. Even if it's something she is against.
But I do think that most white's are still like that but I think it works both ways. It's still a problem and unfortunately will be for a while.
2006-06-05 15:21:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The people we bought our land from are blacks and we are Caucasians. We love and respect them very much. They are among the most honest and moral people we've known.
The girl you talk about is double dealing and you should cut here free. There are other girls out there who will appreciate you for who you are, both black and white. Look for quality, not color or beauty. My wife is far from beautiful physically, but her quality is unquestionable, and her inner beauty is unsurpassed.
2006-06-05 15:21:48 · answer #4 · answered by quietwalker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure that what you heard came from her voice? Even if it did, she might have not ment it. Many women try to get their crushe's attention by doing things like these and testing for their reaction. I am not justifying what she did, its wrong, but maybe you can probe for an explannation, and an appology. Do it like a man though, we hate it when big men try to emulate little boys.
2006-06-05 15:19:58 · answer #5 · answered by geniusflightnurse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is confusing, particularly after your story.
I don't care about black people when I'm around them or not. Not that I don't like black people. I just don't care about black people or white people. Or any people.
Damn it...now you've made me sound racist. It's not that I don't care, I just don't distinguish. Do you understand? Why do you always turn things on me like this? Stop it! I can't be with you anymore!
2006-06-05 15:19:55 · answer #6 · answered by Big.Dave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Also if you want to get specific i study anthropology and if you take the whole evolution theory as justification of origin then we all came from the same place Tazinia, africa. i would ask bigotted narrow minded people to pick up a book!
2006-06-05 15:21:40 · answer #7 · answered by charlotte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she just wants to be down with crew for some perverse pop culture reasons to me!
Don't worry - not all white girls are like that - many of us like a guy becasue of who he is regardless of his skin, culture, religion, looks, job, etc.
I know I do anyway....and I've alwyas been an excellent judge of character.
This girl sounds immature and poisonous - I'd steer well clear of her. she obviously doesn't love you - hell, she can't even respect you!
2006-06-05 15:20:32 · answer #8 · answered by LadyRebecca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if there is a whole culture someone hates, there can be one person in that culture that he/she loves. you can't let a whole stereotype get in the way of having a specific personality
2006-06-05 15:21:52 · answer #9 · answered by Drfreakz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly.
2006-06-05 15:18:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋