My aunt(only 8 months older then;we're close)is cheating on her fiace{whom i dont really like}with this other guy{whom i dont much like either}.I dont want her to get hurt,wat should i do?
2006-06-05
15:15:52
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pro_heartbreaker_69
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Shes NOT an adult,shes 16!And shes like my sister!Im jelous of her for havin 2 guys,when i barely have 1.But i still DONT want her to get in trouble.{plus her fiance is CRAZY,seriously!!!!!!!!}
2006-06-05
15:23:49 ·
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Stay out of her business. If she wants your advice, she will ask for it!
2006-06-05 15:17:36
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answered by bifun83687 3
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STAY OUT OF IT!!! You don't want to get into the middle of anything like that with friends or family!
Just be there when it all comes down on her.
If she was really ready to get married she wouldn't be messing around with someone else!!!!
2006-06-05 22:17:44
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answered by lu 2
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Talk to your aunt talk cheap get real why not discuss ya heart are u helping her open up help her now she listen if your serious in helping her to deal w/ issue now before she say I do ask her what on her heart simple
2006-06-05 22:25:15
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answered by Anonymous
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She's responsible for her actions NOT YOU.
If you care for her... you might tell her why you thing the AFFAIR is a better choice then her Man... But, the decision is hers to make.
I would not ADVERTISE what you know... since that too is her business.
2006-06-05 22:18:53
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answered by Anonymous
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i know that you guys are close and everything but u shouldn't get in between that. Because she is an adult and she should know what wrong and right beside in the bible it says that you should chect on You fiancee or husband.
2006-06-05 22:19:24
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answered by wal16j 1
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Voice your opinion on it the best way you know how without being judgemental and let her do what ever she decides and be there for her for what ever the outcome is
2006-06-05 22:23:25
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answered by pinky 1
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Definitely don't tattle. Sit her down and talk to her about it. Tell her you're concerned about her and what she's doing isn't safe. Tell her your only a phone call away if she needs to talk.
2006-06-05 22:17:44
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answered by ? 6
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This is not your problem. We all have to learn the hard way when we make bad choices. But good for you for caring.
2006-06-05 22:17:28
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answered by ocean 3
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well i know its unfair for both of guys but for your info let ur aunt decide her own destiny, she choose that kind of love path and i believe she can settle them too. you dun need to do anything, juz relax and dun bother about ur aunt love affair.
2006-06-05 22:25:58
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answered by babe82 1
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Try to talk to her.... If she doesn't stop, then watch everything what she's doing. When everything crashed on her, be there to tell her first, "I'm sorry, but I have to say this so you'll learn...I told you so"
2006-06-05 22:19:14
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answered by athame 3
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