I feel like I'm playing favorites. I know a lot of children. And there are specific ones I want in my wedding party. But I feel like the siblings are going to be disappointed and feel like I'm playing favorites. Particularly because I want to choose 2 of the 4 children I work with as a nanny. Professionally, that is kind of playing favorites, I feel. Obviously I can't have 20 kids in the wedding, I'm choosing 6 children that I know. Is there a way to make this less like playing favorites. Somehow make the others feel included? But not have it be a total burden on me either. What do you think?
2006-06-05 14:47:16 · 2 answers · asked by Ann 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
include the other ones bye handing out bubbles or books there are alot of diferent ways to make them feel important have them sing a song for you thats always cute
2006-06-05 14:53:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Children are resiliant. They get over not being asked things very quickly. This is your wedding party. Invite who you want to invite. Sorry for the ones who do not get invited. Donald Trump has a LOT of friends, he invited only a select few. Where the one's who did not get invited upset? Of course. Did they get over it? Certainly. Life is full of happiness and disappointments. Stop giving yourself a guilt trip about the invitation list.
PS Hope the wedding is great!!
2006-06-05 14:57:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋