ok so i started dating this guy last summer and we were both in love with eachother and had so much fun together we were together a lot and fooled around every now and then, then we broke up cause of my parents but in april he called me after 9 months and he told me that he was in love with me and i have always had his heart and i was the one he wanted to marry, then all the sudden the other day he tells me that he doesnt think it is really going to work out, i would see him every chance i got and we had so much fun together....y did this happen and what should i do??? i still REALLY like him!!
2006-06-05 14:25:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He wanted his cake and eat it to....Now that he has no one on the side he wants you back until someone else comes along again...A brutal cycle but is true....Move on sweetie!!!!!!!
2006-06-05 14:30:14 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
went through it! the sad and painful truth is he doesnt care about u if he ever did! u guys fooled around thats where u and i both messed up! we let them think thats what we were a game and when they told us the 3 magic words we would do anything! so when u guys broke up and he comes back to u 9 months later he wasnt getting any and hes back to u for more because he knows u care about him so he knew what strings to pull honey ive been there! it bites ***, but u need to move on! i had to 2 and yes, it was hard but thats on us for allowing it! ur better than that so find urself a real man cause this one will someday know what hes missin out on! and show him ur over it, ya see him around dont get nervous or shy smile confidentaly and keep going flirt around him with other boys dress real sexy and have the time of ur life WITHOUT HIM!!!!! theirs a lot of other fish in the sea home girl so keep it real and move on! simply let him go!
2006-06-05 21:55:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy is testing you, making you choose between your parents and him. but another way to see if he is really testing you is to find a common friend and see if he has a girlfriend. if he does, you should move on, if he doesn't then you have to think why you are not seeing him. is it your parents getting in the way or are you two running out of fire. i mean, just go to the same college and you two will see. if not, get the same part time job and you will see.
2006-06-05 21:29:49 · answer #3 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems that in the 9 months you were apart he might have been with another girl and because he got dumped he came back to you because he realized how good u were or because he wanted a rebound girl. i know it sounds harsh but i dont think he is worth it. if he really was in love it doesnt matter what parents say ull do nething to see the person.
Find someone who will treat you right, and treasure your love and everything you do for them. that wat a relatioship is about, trust and ever lasting commitment.
2006-06-05 21:33:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must have had a girlfriend after you two broke up. She broke up with him and now he is crawling back to you. But his other girlfriend decided to come back to him, so he isn't going to marry you. That's my theory unless you are really sure that he didn't date other women after you.
2006-06-05 21:28:43 · answer #5 · answered by Sazziable 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems he has problems with making up his mind.. and donno what he is talking about... so u better be careful... cos that kind of people can easily brake ur heart... give lots of hopes at once and take it all the next day... leaving u in blue and helpless.
Even though u liked him a lot... think about his this attitude... cos no point in liking somebody sooo much if he is going to brake your heart because of his such attitudes..
2006-06-05 21:34:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have found someone else ...could be a number of things ....Sit down and talk to him and if he is refusing to get back with you ten I say let him go
2006-06-05 21:30:04 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as hard as it is to face,ur gonna have to move on....this guy is't the one for u,i had one like that n i thought i loved him but then a much better guy came along who treats me like a queen....like his queen,thats what u need a guy who will treat u like u deserve,it will take time to heal though....good luck,luv ya
2006-06-05 21:47:24 · answer #8 · answered by Albee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he knows exactly which strings to pull to get you to sing !!! maybe its time you thought with your head and not your heart , think realistically instead being love blind
2006-06-05 21:29:02 · answer #9 · answered by glavendale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go...theres an old saying let thme go if its menat to be they will return...take some time to let ur self moarn a lil..but dont let this overtake ur life
2006-06-05 21:27:38 · answer #10 · answered by Lilmisssassy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋