my step dad is throwing things at my mom. remotes, toys, and ext. i dont want to report him but how... descrip

Question

do i get through it? he's being mean and cursing. i want to really &$%&^%$&^%$&% his @$$. but im only 12. wat to i do?

Answer 1

CALL THE COPS

Answer 2

Honey, I am a 53 year old woman - I went through the same thing most of my childhood (3 yrs. and up). My Mom and I both were abused - I wish someone told me I could have done something about it, like all the good answers you have already received, but no one did... and I am still trying to be emotionally and spiritually healed from all that hell. HOW DO YOU GET THROUGH... first remove yourself from the home - (Do you have an Aunt, Uncle or grandparents you could go to?) Next - the only way you can get through is by the power and direction of God - there is no power greater than his - pray for His help for you and your Mother Sweetie. I know I , and probably so many who have read your question - WILL ALL BE PRAYING FOR YOU! Also, having a good support system around you - a pastor, school counselor, teacher, etc. is an absolute necessity - people you know you can trust, who love you. DO NOT GIVE UP HOPE, AND PLEASE DO NOT TRY TO FIGHT WITH THIS MAN - IT WOULD ONLY INCREASE HIS VIOLENCE. THE LORD WILL BE WITH YOU DEAR, LITTLE ONE-GET OUT OF THAT MESS IMMEDIATELLY!!

Answer 3

It sounds like he has an alcohol problem, so you should be careful and speak only to your mom privately about this. Do not confront or provoke him directly. Ask her how she plans to protect herself and you if it should get more violent. What does she plan to do to get him to stop doing it?!!!

Obviuosly if it gets seriuosly violent and physically abusive, you will need to contact the police. If he runs after you, get out of the house and go to a neighbor's to call the police.

Do you have a cell phone? Brothers or sisters?

I am sorry you are going through this. I went through something similar at age 11. He hit my mother on the head with a metal object. It was her second marriage and it only lasted 5 months. After she locked him out of the house, we had a female body guard living with us for a while.

I hope everything gets better fast. I really mean it. You sound like a very brave kid.

Answer 4

here is a number for a national domestic abuse hotline.

1-800-799-SAFE (7233)


Here is the website where I got the number

http://www.ndvh.org/

They will talk to you and council you. Even if you don't want to call now, keep the number so that if you ever need to call, you can do it. What you are going through is very scary but you are not alone and there is help out there. If you don't live in the US then do a search on the internet for "domestic abuse hotline" and see if you can find something more appropriate. They are more focused on helping you than on reporting or punishing your step father. However, if they feel that he is puting you in danger they may do so. Good luck.

Answer 5

First of all, I am very sorry that you have to be around this stuff. I am thinking talking to a counselor at your school and they will guide you in the right direction on what to do about your anger and most of all the situation. I am glad to see that you are asking for help! Getting physical with him is only going to add fuel to the fire.

Answer 6

Take a domestic violence order out on him you or your mom can do it. The cops will remove him from the house and he won`t be able to talk to you or her or get with in 500 feet of you , your home or your moms job or they will lock him up. Do something now before it gets too far! People like him can`t stand up to another man so they take it out on women and some states don`t play that crap. Get him out now!!!

Answer 7

I'm your age too. You really need to call the cops, or your mom will continue to be abused. don't talk to your mom about it, because she sounds scared and she may not want you to call, in case your dad finds out. If you really cared about your mom, you would stop this now so she does not have to be continued to have this happen.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

911

Answer 10

Talk to you mom about it. Tell her that your stepdad is treating her badly and that it's affecting you. You are absolutely right - no one should accept to be treated like that and the soon your mom gets out the better. Telling her about your feelings might make her consider the relationship and its effect on her son.

Answer 11

Tell someone now, even if it's not the cops. Tell an adult you trust exactly what you have said here. This is very dangerous, and could very well escalate. Your stepfather needs to know that this kind of behavior is not acceptable and needs to stop. Don't try and handle it by yourself, he could very well hurt you too.

Good luck!