i had sex over the weekend and now im not sure i liked it i cried to my friend about it saturday feeling guilty and now im kinda over it and kinda wanting to do it again what is wrong with me
2006-06-05 13:15:10 · 10 answers · asked by crystal_lynne 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
you probably feel weird because you know you should have waited but on top of that it is obviously a good feeling... but make sure you are safe and make sure you dont become one of those people that turn into a hore just because they like it or to impress a guy or guys. Try to keep your morals invovled
2006-06-05 13:20:08 · answer #1 · answered by Deanna M9903 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many many girls...if not most...do NOT enjoy sex at first, and may not enjoy it until they mature more. What girls like is being loved, given affection, etc. Sex is all that up until the actual act, and then...even though they're aroused...the actual sex itself is usually awkward and even painful to some degree. You're not necessarily with the person that's gonna love you the rest of your life either, so there's a feeling of being insecure and unsafe that comes afterwards. Not to mention...that possibility of getting pregnant no matter HOW much you protected yourself from it.
Most girls and even many young women that I have known in my lifetime did NOT care much for sex until they were well into their 20's or even their 30's. Some have pain every time, get lots of infections, and those darned CRAZY hormones make you feel all sorts of stuff, too.
Good luck...you are TOTALLY normal. It's good that you have a friend to talk to. There's nothing wrong with you. Just remember, sex may have come with romance, but it is not romance itself. When you're in love with someone and vise-versa, it's a WHOLE different experience...and I mean mature, adult, commited love. Don't believe anything else.
2006-06-05 20:33:33 · answer #2 · answered by maynerdswife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are like most people for the first time. You aren't sure if you were really ready, but you didn't really have a bad time. It probably just wasn't what you expected it to be. You sound younger too, so you are probably wondering if you did it with the right guy, or for the right reasons. Don't worry about it, but certainly don't do it again for a while if you are uncomfortable with it. You are under no obligation now or ever to have sex again, just because you did it once. If you do decide to continue having sex, be careful and use a condom. Don't make yourself regret other things... like an unplanned pregnancy or std. Best of luck to you!
2006-06-05 20:20:41 · answer #3 · answered by manderstwin1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with u, u've just been exposed to sex.
It's natural (I think) for you to feel guilty your first time, because I'm sure that your parents (and society) has taught u that it's best to wait before marriage. However, since u chose not to, you're going to deal with a lot of decision making for the rest of ur life (until u get married).
Obviously, you can never miss something you've never had. Since you never had sex before, u didn't know how it felt, but now that you know how it feels, you're going to want it again.
I'm sure that everybody's going to tell u that u better get checked out, just in case, and they're right...however, u need to make sure that you prepare urself for ur future. Whenever a young man approaches u for sex, make sure that u choose wisely who u want to lay with...ur reputation IS on the line...and it's easy to fall for somebody and then be made out as a tramp in the end.
2006-06-05 20:22:14 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What your feeling is normal. Its a huge thing to do. No one likes it there first time, but since you ar ehaving some regrets My advice is to lay off sex for awhile. Give yourself sometime to get use to it and the changes that sex bring.
2006-06-05 20:22:06 · answer #5 · answered by hockey_kisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you. You are young? You have tasted pleasure in a way you hadn't before.? So you want to experience it again. Please be careful and exercise some discipline in your sex life.
2006-06-05 20:28:34 · answer #6 · answered by enigma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you felt guilty that means maybe you shouldn't try it again. There maybe other issues there. Emotional ones that you may not be aware of.
2006-06-05 20:21:43 · answer #7 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it
do it
do it
do it
get pregnant
2006-06-06 00:58:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop thinking of it and u will be fine
2006-06-06 04:35:26 · answer #9 · answered by saint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it probably hurt
2006-06-06 00:23:54 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋