My husband left me on Thursday and left a note. I can't quit crying. The nights are the worst, we snuggled together perfectly. I feel so lonely. Advice please!!
2006-06-05 12:49:50 · 26 answers · asked by carolscreation 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
One day at a time. You must have known this was coming. You'll find someone else to snuggle with, but right now, you need to pick yourself up, cancel the pity party, call an attorney and take him for everything you can. I guarentee that will make you fell alot better.
2006-06-05 12:53:09 · answer #1 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Time, time and more sweet time.
Try to breath and seek couseling. When someone leaves you it is rejection. The ego hurts and your heart and feelings. I am divorced but I left my husband but I have been rejected and abused. Time truly heals. Right now you need counseling and you never ever know. This may not be the end or it may be but for now you are key here and you have got to get some help. I am so sorry to hear this and seek immediate help for your emotional state. Pray to God for healing and your marriage. God can restore the love and your marriage. Keep the faith and be positive even in this pain it will get better. I PROMISE you. God bless...
That Frankie made me forget about my ex! Dang!! Thanks...
2006-06-05 19:52:51 · answer #2 · answered by Cheri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Few men are worth a woman's tears, and the ones who are won't make them cry. As painful as it may be right now you have to figure out what is best for you. You have a life to live that he doesn't seem to want to be a part of anymore. Take care of yourself and that will take care of the rest.
2006-06-05 20:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by Striker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Try not to worry!!
You are probably a lovely girl who will find someone else to treat you right, as like all women you deserve!! don't feel lonely, talk to your family about it
Well as for your husband? he is a pig for what he has done!!
Take care,
And good luck!!
2006-06-12 16:22:40 · answer #4 · answered by East Bay Punk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First - don't go gettin into another relationship too quickly!
Second - your heart needs time to heal and eventaully you will be able to stop the tears and realize if he left you like that you are probally better off without him as much as it might hurt right now.
2006-06-05 19:54:17 · answer #5 · answered by bluskygreengrass 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is very tough like that. I hope you two can sort through your stuff. Remember Guys are like rubber bands - We spring back. So maybe your man just needs a few days to himself and he will return and you two can talk things over. Im sure he would be missing you just as much you are him. Good luck. x
2006-06-05 19:54:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry this is happening to you. This may not be very comforting..but you are going to be upset for a while. But if you allow yourself the time to heal from this(its only been a few days!) then you will get better and move on and realize your better off without him. GOODLUCK!
2006-06-05 20:51:32 · answer #7 · answered by SKITTLES 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Losing a love to separation/divorce is like losing a loved one to death. You will mourn him, in your own time. Ultimately you will have to let him go so you can get on with your life. Believe that there is somebody else even better out there for you
2006-06-05 19:54:16 · answer #8 · answered by Hunny B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I left my wife and it wasn't easy , we have two fantastic sons.I miss them terribly ,I know its my fault but after 21 years I despised her and wish i'd left earlier .If you need to ask any questions about the male side just e-mail me
romanceofrust@yahoo.co.uk
If you think it would help.
Good Luck
Try also Simone .E.Katzenbergs book
2006-06-12 18:25:05 · answer #9 · answered by Spitfire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write a country and western song.
You've got a great title, "When Will My Heart Stop Breaking?"
It could be a hit.
2006-06-05 19:53:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋