I have tried to just remain friends and she pushed me away, told me she has a boyfriend, but now that her grandparents are dieing she is trying to be friends again. I love her very much and wouold've done anything for her. But what should I do now? Should I just be there for her as a friend and just offer her my condolences or should I be like go to your boyfriend. I think she is still in love with me but why would she have a boyfriend and do you think he cares about her feelings? I don't know I am stuck
2006-06-05 12:49:17 · 6 answers · asked by Looking for Ms. Right 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if the two of u have been together long then it is still hard for her to face her true feelings.but she definitely needs u more than ever it's just hard for the words to come out . u should start slow and as friends u can relate to her because there is history but I'm sure she would be happy that u r there as a friend not pressuring her about anything just there to lend a shoulder.
Well i hope this advice was helpful!
2006-06-05 13:07:03 · answer #1 · answered by lady_boxer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she only wants you around when it is convenient for her. Seriously, look back at the situation. You attempted once before to be friends with her...right? Well, things got worse and she pushed you away and invited a new man into her life. I would tell her I'm truly sorry about your grandparents, but I have to be honest and tell you that I'm NOT your convenient friend. You can't just call me when something goes wrong. If she wants to be friends fine, but don't wait until a tragic event occurs before she decides she wants you in her life. I would tell her that she has a b/f now and your trying to move on as well. She should seek condolences from her new b/f. You will be there for her in spirit, but cannot accept being there only when it's convenient for her. Considering you have tried before and she pushed you away. I wish you all luck in all and future relationships. God Bless!
2006-06-05 19:55:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to stay neutral and not get suck it by sympathy love. Regardelss how her bf behave, stay on course being the ex and do not use this as an opportunity to reunite. After the tragedy is over the reality will set in....
2006-06-05 19:53:39 · answer #3 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the time and money you got!
2006-06-05 19:52:15 · answer #4 · answered by Junk Head 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are friends first, treat her as you would like to be treated buy make sure you cleary expres s your feelings so she doesn't get the wrong idea
2006-06-05 19:54:23 · answer #5 · answered by chr31istine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-05 19:52:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋