My husband hardly ever asks for sex, and I want it all the time. I am pretty cute, and I've had plenty of guys show an interest (so no, I ain't fat or ugly.). I think maybe he has a little performance anxiety or something but I can't be sure. He says he wants more sex too when I ask about it, but he doesn't "pursue" it so I assume he doesn't want it. Even when I flirt with him and try to initiate, he sometimes doesn't quite catch on. How can I get him to be a real tiger in the sack?
2006-06-05 12:32:01 · 7 answers · asked by tallgirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you take control, be the man, slap one on him, and if that fails, lie to him, tell him hes the best and biggest
2006-06-05 12:38:15 · answer #1 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Kerrie, try this, invite your husband out to dinner one evening, pick a restaurant you both enjoy. Wear something you know he finds you sexy in! While at dinner, stay positive and talk about the things he has done with you sexually in the past that you really enjoyed! Ask him to tell you what you have done that he has really enjoyed. On the way home, kiss him and touch him at every stop sign or stop light, once home, you need to remove all of his clothes and tell him to lay on your bed. Now while you are slowly removing your clothes in front of him, remind him of the things you talked about at dinner. Lay in bed and start having fun! You could set up dates like this at home too! Make a romantic meal together, plan an evening where you give each other a massage. Things like this. Keep it interesting and stay positive. Good luck
2006-06-06 05:54:09 · answer #2 · answered by Ekimo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try spicing it up for him.... Like toys and new posistions and dressing sexy for him in and out of the bed room. How about trying flavor and fun stuff like that... Bubble baths are fun too or even showering together! Play with him and tease him and lots of fore play.... Hope thise helps... Give him a full body massage
2006-06-05 12:37:35 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to go to the Doctors it could be an underling medical problem.If not ask the Doc. for Viagra.
2006-06-05 12:37:08 · answer #4 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go with the three way its stupid and insulting.....just play with him more and tease him...im a guy so if hes like me then he thinks that three ways are stupid and have no meaning
2006-06-05 12:48:31 · answer #5 · answered by Mike420a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for a threesome. if he doesn't go for it, he's a lost cause. get it someplace else.
2006-06-05 12:40:27 · answer #6 · answered by marabierto1961 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
toes will do it!!!!!
2006-06-05 13:13:13 · answer #7 · answered by jsjr12469 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋