My husband hardly ever asks for sex, and I want it all the time. I am pretty cute, and I've had plenty of guys show an interest (so no, I ain't fat or ugly.). I think maybe he has a little performance anxiety or something but I can't be sure. He says he wants more sex too when I ask about it, but he doesn't "pursue" it so I assume he doesn't want it. Even when I flirt with him and try to initiate, he sometimes doesn't quite catch on. How can I get him to be a real tiger in the sack?
2006-06-05 12:31:04 · 4 answers · asked by tallgirl 3 in Health ➔ Men's Health
I wish I knew. I've never had this problem. It doesn't take much to encourage me at all! I actually have the exact OPPOSITE problem that your husband does.
2006-06-05 12:36:45 · answer #1 · answered by mystic_gohan_masenko 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first off, explane everything you just told us to him. Communication is KEY to EVERY relationship. maybe he is shy but everytime you ask him he gets embarassed or maybe hes just worried about his size or if hes pleasuring you enough. ask ask ask! thats the only way you'll ever know if anything is wrong with him.
NEXT: if your wanting it REAL bad, and he's kinda lackluster on showing he wants it, put him in a compromising situtition that he CAN'T say no to. istead of "trying" to initiate it, DO IT!- Just take out his little guy and start giving it attention, kiss it, suck it, fondle it.. WHATEVER. once a guy gets really hard its really hard to say no expecially to his girlfriend. plus if you start to take it out and he stops you, gets flustered or is reluctant to have you see it in broad daylight. This could be a sign that he's not sure what you think about his "little guy" again he might think you don't think its big enough, thick enough, its not pleasuring you enough... when it comes to penis some guys can worry a lot. my best suggestion to you is when you see it or your actually having sex, tell him how big it feels and how it can hardly fit in your mouth because its so thick and how hot it gets you hot or whatever.. if you compliment it a lot and he chages the way he acts then that was probibly the problem. if not then I don't know.. LOL if he won't help YOU help him after you talk to him then he aint worth it! LOL hope it somewhat helps!
2006-06-05 19:48:48 · answer #2 · answered by kaosnklutter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he can try some natural remedies to perk up his libido, Also some fantasy sexual games can really liven up the sex drive
2006-06-05 19:54:24 · answer #3 · answered by Natural Health Consultant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem is same with me honey. do one thing --- just become nude & do what u feel with your man & ask him not to touch u. then after the things comes to saturation........ u will see the magic.
2006-06-06 04:25:02 · answer #4 · answered by tania 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋