One of my friends has this guy that likes her. They see each other evey day in class, and he never leaves her alone. She says it's driving her crazy! She wants to be nice, even thoug she is really annoyed. Do you know any way you can ditch someone like this, but NICELY???
2006-06-05 12:27:02 · 9 answers · asked by Jedi for Christ 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Yes, I see what you mean about being firm......thanx
2006-06-05 12:33:11 · update #1
there's nice, which means she probably won't get taken seriously because this guy can tell she doesn't like him (hopefully), there's firm which is in between "nice" and rude. rude of course you know what that is. so there you are find the middle ground and deal with him. BE FIRM ABOUT HOW UNCOMFORTABLE HE MAKES YOU FEEL.
2006-06-05 12:31:56 · answer #1 · answered by vanessa w 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
communique skills will contain self belief and time. the version between a warm/handsome guy and the "awww he's lovable" guy is self belief. He should be gentle with himself, trust, and he won't be able to be afraid to positioned himself obtainable. practice makes suitable at the same time as on dates. even with the undeniable fact that, he ought to wish to target getting a self help e book on communique skills. do in basic terms not enable any women see him reading it. you need to purchase it for him . . . . Oh, and um. . . if he's so tremendous, why do not you date him?
2016-12-06 09:55:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really have to tell him to lay off - otherwise he won't get the message. That happened to me and I put up with it for a year before I finally had to tell him off. It's hard, but you have to be firm.
2006-06-05 12:31:36 · answer #3 · answered by Pear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nicely,? No such thing!
Just do it!
Otherwise the message does not get across.
2006-06-05 12:31:06 · answer #4 · answered by trwab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not really a good way to do it. She is goign to have to tell him to lay off.
2006-06-05 12:29:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that she is not interested and needs to focus on her school work.
2006-06-05 12:30:13 · answer #6 · answered by ladykatie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice and say it like it is... AND BE NICE ABOUT IT. Yet, say it like it is... I DON"T SEE YOU THAT WAY, etc.
2006-06-05 12:31:02 · answer #7 · answered by http://fuelthearmy.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be like ur kewl..but i dont like you like that...we shoudl jst be friends..
2006-06-05 12:31:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say ur coolbut ur really starting to bug me. stop please!
2006-06-05 12:30:39 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ ♫ lauren ♫ ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋