I recently got into it with some gay guyz, one pushed me and I kneed him in the face (just by jumping up) and the other one started swing all gay-like at me so now I'm fighting two fruitz at once.
It started by me telling them that "I'm not intrested, get away from me you fairy." , so now I have a little guilty about saying that.
Am I a jerk or a hell of a fighter?
2006-06-05 12:19:55 · 21 answers · asked by ? 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Not to be rude, but you are acting like a jerk, and you are being violent - your act could probably land you in court, being being sued for misconduct and likewise - you ever recognized?
Now if you were being eyed by two gay men, you should have simply told them "I am not interested" - that is the right thing to do! If they are coming on too strong, back away, and walk quickly. But you had no right of saying "fruit" or "fairy" - that's derogatory, and I am pretty much sure that if they had a derogatory way of calling people "straight", if you make you upset - equally as they must have been. Next time, be careful, because the next encounter like this, you may end up with a stab wound or bullet wound. Has happened before with us straight people, and it can happen again.
Next time - anger management. Watch yourself.
2006-06-05 12:37:53 · answer #1 · answered by Drewy-D 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Well you sound like a jerk. Lets count the derogatory things you say.
1. "the other one started swing all gay-like at me" STEREOTYPE
2. "now I'm fighting two fruitz at once." DEROGATORY
3. "get away from me you fairy." again DEROGATORY
Yeah you sound like a pretty big jerk. And by what you say I would assume you think gay people are inferior to you, so that would not make you a hell of a fighter, because you should be better than them anyway. (in your mind set)
Yeah, YOU= JERK
2006-06-05 19:28:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to say that your a hell of a fighter just makes you sound even more stupid than you already are.
First off, I should make it clear that you really need to go to school and learn how to spell and create sentences that actually function.
Second, "Sorry, I'm not interested" could have been sufficient. "I'm not interested, get away from me you fairy" is insensitive, rude and completely homophobic. I don’t care if you aren’t gay and if you disagree with the way gay people live, how would you like it if a chick told you "I'm not interested, get away from me you fairy". Its no wonder that you had two gay guys attacking you. For crying out loud, how would you like it if I started to make racial comments about you? its exactly the same as judging me and making comments about my sexuality.
Thirdly, you are proving yourself to be such a stuck up pig by continuing to take the Mickey out of gay guys by calling us fruits. Again, your rude, disgusting and all you are doing is showing yourself to be a coward. Yes, a coward. Your pitiful attempt at making yourself feel more dominant, powerful and 'masculine' over these two guys hasn’t done you any good because you look like the biggest cock I’ve ever heard of. If you ask me, these two gay guys are the protagonists in this situation. You are some pathetic imbecile who thinks that by butching himself up and getting all masculine on these guys he’s going to be a better man.
Think again looser.
2006-06-06 01:04:54 · answer #3 · answered by ornge_sherbert 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're kinda a jerk. But not THAT much, as a lot of people are saying. If some guy hit on me and I said: "No get away from me you bastard." Then I would not be jerk, would I? It's just sad you had to call him a fairy, next time just try saying "Not interested."
Oh, and fighting is ridiculous. So I take it back: you were a jerk because you used violence. So don't repeat the mistake!
And you're not a good fighter, you're a jerk.
2006-06-05 20:20:19 · answer #4 · answered by cami_calzone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I certainly don't think you would have had to fight anyone if you had handled the situation a little differently. If you had said....sorry, not interested and then just walked away, you would not be a jerk at all. Just because someone finds you attractive (no matter what sex they are), and you do not wish to reciprocate doesn't mean you have to. But you do have to exercise good manners. Why did you have to be so derogatory about it? Looks like your two "fairys" turned into fighters themselves!!! Next time, just be a little cooler about it and then you won't have to wonder if you're a jerk or not.
2006-06-05 20:55:18 · answer #5 · answered by Autumn BrighTree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea you pretty much instigated that one :) Dont know why you felt the urge to say what you did, maybe you were amongst friends and didnt want to sound sissy. I'd feel guilty too. Plus if he was swinging all "gay-like" you probably didnt have to swing back :) It was unlikely he would probably hit you. Plus how do you knee someone in the face by jumping up? You must jump pretty high... sounds intentional to me. The other guy is to blame some for pushing you, he also didnt have to do that....
2006-06-05 19:30:37 · answer #6 · answered by calcdffirefighter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You, sir, are an a-s-s. A man pushes you and you knee him in the face. Shame on you. You could have handled that situation much better than you did. I'm glad you're not my son, because you'd be getting a much bigger lecture. Next time just walk away. Real men do that.
2006-06-06 01:02:52 · answer #7 · answered by Mama Otter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gays need to go down in society! You are the best there is! THe more gays out of the way the better the world is!
P.S. You are a hell of a f*cking fighter
2006-06-05 19:45:50 · answer #8 · answered by Jon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
beating up gay guys is like beating yourself at pong while holding both controllers. the reason you're a jerk is because your question wasn't a question. put a damn question in that area next time and stop being such a homophobe. you reak of pixy dust.
2006-06-05 19:26:47 · answer #9 · answered by good knower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're a jerk for calling them a "fairy" to their faces and for calling them "fruitz" on here
in my opinion you instigated the fight by the name-calling
2006-06-05 19:23:10 · answer #10 · answered by marizinha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋