I am 15 years old i'll be 16 in two months. I recently lost my virginity. I lost it today to be exact. I was wondering if I should of waited a few more years. I love him w/all my heart. He got my name tattood on him so i know he won't leave me, But we've only been toghether for 3 almost 4months. Was it too soon? please answer me!
2006-06-05 12:12:04 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Honestly, If you have to ask that then you probably were hon.
2006-06-05 12:16:55 · answer #1 · answered by â? º»Ã?â?¥ Kandi â?¥Ã?Ǽâ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My EX-fiance got my name tattooed on him as well... not a guarantee that you will be together forever, as a matter of fact, I think people 'Jinx' their relationship when they do that...
As far as being too young? I think if you are questioning yourself, then you probably weren't completely ready. But, unfortunately, your virginity is something you can never get back once it is lost. Just because you have had sex with your bf, doesn't mean you are obligated to continue having sex with him. If you regret doing this, you can tell him that you feel the two of you had sex too soon and that you need time to 'absorb' everything before doing it again. If he truly loves you, he will be understanding... if he gets mad, well then.... I would question his love for you.
2006-06-05 19:47:40 · answer #2 · answered by E M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. You could've waited until you are married....it makes sex for the first time much more special. 2. Tattooing a girlfriend/boyfriend's name on the person is kind of dumb. Why? What if you two are no longer together after 4 months? What will he do then - scratch your name off of it? He can do laser surgery to take it off, but it is much more expensive than the tattooing itself. If you two stayed a lot more than 2 years and get married, then the tattoo's ok...but it is too soon, if you are with him for only 4 months.
2006-06-05 19:19:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are young to lose your virginity but its done.
You are to young to really know what love is. When you get older your going to look back at this a wonder what you were thinking. How are you in love after 4 months.
And did you two know each other before you started dating. I ask because it seems crazy for him to get a tattoo with your name when you have been together for a short amount of time.
2006-06-05 19:25:28 · answer #4 · answered by Lexi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH my GOD....Are you seriously asking if you were to young to loose your virginity? Of course you are too young dear....You still have your whole teenage years ahead of you. What are you going to do if you get pregnant? I hope he wrapped his **** up. Just cause a guy tats your name on him doesn't mean nothing...But whatever you do, please don't tat his name on your body...Believe me you are 15, he is probably ur age if not older than you...Things change,,,he will leave you for another who is willing to give it up just like you and he will continue to do that...He has nothing to worry about, he is not the one that will get pregnant or the bad reputation...On the contrary he will get a good reputation for bangin all these girls...At least from his boys he will....Becareful dear, make sure you don't get knocked up by some guy who "SAYS" he loves you...Live your life to the fullest, stay in school get an education...not pregnant.. Good Luck!
2006-06-05 19:18:38 · answer #5 · answered by TXDUDE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...this is statutory rape. When you truly love a guy, you will be sorry you threw your virginity away at such a young age, to some guy who will always have your name tattooed on his skin. Likely he will tell people that it is his mothers name. Too late to ask now, just live with the consequences, if there are any.
2006-06-05 20:12:39 · answer #6 · answered by powhound 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make sure you were safe....it probably would have been a smart idea if you waited but its too late now. Are you sure he won't leave you .....do you guys really love each other like if you guys saw a really hot guy/girl would you go after him/her because if you or he would you guys probably dont' love each other as well as you thougt. but if you were safe, you really thought about it and you really wanted to do this and knew what you were getting into........im sure you knew the right decision for yourself and went for it......if you have a regret you will in time get over it.....but if not.....then don't worry about what other people think
hope that helps
2006-06-05 19:17:13 · answer #7 · answered by Savannah Says 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you were a bit too young but you can't live with regrets for the rest of your life. Just embrace your future and just because he has a tattoo of your name or whatever doesn't mean anything. I heard that kind of jinxes the relationship. Don't worry about it and if you continue to have sex make sure to protect yourself.
2006-06-05 20:03:54 · answer #8 · answered by yowww kelly clarkson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having doubts, then yes, it probably was too soon. But you can't go back in time and undo it, so just focus on the future and making the choices you really want to make from here on.
2006-06-05 19:35:49 · answer #9 · answered by sarahfancher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it was way too soon. I'm 16 & I'm waiting til Marriage. Whats up with all you other teens who think having sex before marriage is so cool? Who cares if you really love him. You wait til marriage, now when you get aids I'm gonna laugh at you.
2006-06-05 19:15:44 · answer #10 · answered by kyle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i got it does that mean i need to get ur name tatood and u'll let me have sex,but its fine now a days people loose their virginity at 14 and 15 and there will be a time wen people will loose it at 5 and 6 so chill!
2006-06-06 15:48:10 · answer #11 · answered by hot_ice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋