I like having sex with guys but when it comes to a relationship i dont see myself with a guy like giving him roses and valentine days card like being romantic with him, and i also feel attracted to girls so what does that make me?
2006-06-05 12:01:17 · 14 answers · asked by ykou m 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
A human being, my son. Enjoy having sex (just please be responsible!!) with whichever sex you choose. When you find the right person you'll know it. Then you'll know if you're Happy, Bi or Linear!
2006-06-05 18:14:51 · answer #1 · answered by Mama Otter 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have sex with someone of the same sex - you are gay
If you have sex with someone of the opposite sex - you are straight / heterosexual
If you have sex with persons of both sexes - you are bisexual
If you declare that you like to have sex with guys, it simply shows that that is your interest - a situation which will be apart of you. Now, 2 males can have a relationship with each other - on a friendly or brotherly terms - and thats normal - because you can share the same interests and you may enjoy each others company - and again, thats normal. But when it boils down to intimate relationships - then what is when it will be completely gay. So you may not find yourself in a relationship, but the attraction inself is all mindset, and frankly, you would be gay if you are attracted to another male. However, and the bottom line is, you are bi - since you like both guys and girls.
2006-06-05 12:44:57 · answer #2 · answered by Drewy-D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are probably Bi. I mean clearly you are sexually attracted to men, you just aren't mentally attracted to them. It is an interesting concept. What would help was to know whether or not you are also sexually attracted to women. Or maybe you just haven't found the right guy. Maybe you will find a guy who doesn't want the roses and valentines thing. I believe that everyone is born Bi, and everyone has the potential to find the right person in either gender, I think some people are just raised to believe otherwise. There has been a study that shows only three percent of people are TRULY straight. And only three percent of people are TRULY gay.
2006-06-05 12:24:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex with a member of the same sex would not classify you as gay if there are no emotions and/or attraction involved. It just means that you engage in intercourse with the same sex. However, if you are attracted to someone of the same sex that would classify you as gay. As for whether you are bisexual or straight, if you have no feelings involved in same sex relations, you are straight. If attraction comes in then you are bisexual.
2006-06-05 12:34:47 · answer #4 · answered by holidayspice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it doesnt make you gay. Finding men attractive doesnt make you gay. If you had sex exclusively with men, and were not attracted to women, you would be gay. It sounds as if you are bi-sexual.
2006-06-05 12:06:14 · answer #5 · answered by tmills883 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No It makes you gay if you are having sex with only men , It makes you bi if you are having sex with both men and women .
2006-06-05 15:31:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
where i come from it's called being on the downlow (dl) and being on the dl usually causes you lakes to get something that you and a dr. cannot get rid of discover ur sexuality and be honest with ur partner male or female AIDS IS REAL
2006-06-05 13:40:38 · answer #7 · answered by wannawanna64 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm your like me. Sex with guys is great but relationships HELL NO!!. I'm bi. Maybe that's what you are.
2006-06-05 17:13:46 · answer #8 · answered by T. Emopire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i kissed a guy does that make me gay
2006-06-12 06:48:02 · answer #9 · answered by saturdaynight19010@hotmail.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SOUNDS LIKE YOUR BI... I HAVE HAD SEX WITH MEN BUT I DON'T LIKE TO BE IN RELATIONSHIPS WITH THEM... I PREFER A CHICK
2006-06-05 13:14:50 · answer #10 · answered by nic_b06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋