Should i get pregnant?

Question

Should I get pregnant? I needa kno b.c im 11 yrs. old and my boyfriend of lyk 6 1/2 months really wanna have a baby and he is 11 to and i want to as well but i dunno b/c im lyk having second thoughts bout it but we both really wanna have a baby.Wat do i do?

Answer 1

There is no way you are both children enjoy your lives and grow up before you bring an innocent child into this world. Don't mess up your lives by making the wrong choice so young. Think first please..

Answer 2

BEFORE YOU HAVE A BABY YOU SHOULD BE ABLE TO DO ALL OF THESE THINGS...

#1 Drive
#2 Pay for your doctors appointments
#3 Apply for health insurance
#4 Pay Rent
#5 Own your own car
#6 Finish School
#7 Have money to buy food for the baby
#8 Not have a "bedtime" of your own.
#9 Have your own place to live
#10 Be old enough to live without a parent or guardian.
#11 Vote
#12 Write a check.

If you can't do all of these things...you aren't old enough to have a baby. If you can't answer the next ten questions...you aren't old/mature enough to have a baby...

#1 How many weeks in an average pregnancy?
#2 At what week of pregnancy do you take AFP Testing?
#3 At what week does an embryo become a fetus?
#4 How many days can sperm survive after deposit?
#5 How many Stages of pregnancy are there?
#6 What is Vernix?
#7 What is Lanugo?
#8 What is considered a safe amount of caffeine to consume daily during pregnancy?
#9 What side should you primarily sleep on during pregnancy?
#10 At what week can the fetus' sex be determined?

Answer 3

First off, I can't even believe that this is an honest question, but on the off chance that it is, I say YES you should get pregnant, but only if:
1. You and your boyfriend both have jobs paying more than minimum wage AND
2. You and your boyfriend have somewhere to live, on your own, which you pay for on your own, AND
3. You and your boyfriend, get married, AND
4. You and your boyfriend DO NOT plan on using any kind of government support to support your child, AND
5. You and your boyfriend both complete your H.S. education

Considering that you and your boyfriend are both too young to have any of these things, you would both be complete idiots and totally irresponsible if you do have a child --

You need to get away from your boyfriend and go back to playing Barbies - you should not even be talking about having sex, let alone considering having a baby! Please go outside, ride your bike up to the park and play on the swingset -- DO NOT EVEN CONSIDER THIS ANY LONGER.

If you still want to have a baby - offer to babysit a cousin for a couple hours (hopefully overnight), change a diaper or 2, feed the baby a few times during the night, get zero sleep and see if you still want to be a mom.

USE YOUR BRAIN - GOD GAVE IT TO YOU FOR A REASON - how could you support a baby???????

Answer 4

Please wait until you are much older. 11 is no age to be raising a baby. I was 11 when I was in the 5th grade and no way I'd ever think about having a baby. I did eventually, at 26. But of course, I was out of high school 8 years and working. Please, just wait, ok. You can always play with a cabbage patch doll or something and pretend its a real baby. What about those robot baby dolls that cries every 5 minutes? Try them for a day. They may be available through Home EC class at school. Listen to everybody that responded to your Question. They have a point.

Answer 5

You to are to young and if you really care about each other WAIT UNTIL YOUR OLDER!your both only 11 for crying out loud this is just puppy love.Don't do anything that can cause u to get pregnat until you find the right person and u know for sure that they love u(try waiting 4 marriage).explain to him why you don't think you should have a baby your both to young to get jobs,how will u support it,tell him that if he wants one bad enouph wait until your older.Mabey get a babysiting job together because the thing with that is you can return the baby,or get a baby doll.Please wait especially if your having second thoughts besides what will ya'lls parent think?

Answer 6

if you try and have a baby this young you will be ruining your life a baby is beyond just cute and fun, there are lots of responsibilities and it is very hard, from the moment you have this child or even find out that you are pregnant your life will never be the same again. haveing a child is a major life change speaking from a stay at home mother of a 4 month old baby boy, by the way he is crying really, i have to go. please think this through before doing something like this. good luck!

Answer 7

What? Be a kid you have plenty of time for mother hood. Do you want a baby because you want someone to love you? A baby is 24/7 you get no breaks no vactions and it is a lot of hard work. A baby is a person who cannot take care of themselves and they need you all the time even when you dont want to be bothered. They need you. Be a kid and dont rush being a mother. The bible says your body is the temple of the holy ghost. This means our bodys are not ours and what we do with we need to think about how we use them if we are not married. If you love kids so much babysitt and ask your boyfriend to help you. If your boyfriend is rushing you to have sex tell him no and he does not love you any way. What do you really know about being parents you are still kids yourselfs. Take time to enjoy child hood.

Answer 8

Well, I would say no. If you really love your boyfriend you need to know his feelings on the subject, and know he is committed to you before you do this. Ethical and religious bias aside, 11 yrs old is too young to be having a baby, many problems could develop from a pregnancy, If you are going to have sex, use a condom. Having sex at your age is illegal, so I do not condone it in anyway, but if that is what you wish to do, I will say it is physically ok to have sex at your age.

Answer 9

Absolutely not. An 11 year old can not raise a child. Wait until you are much older. If you have a child now then you will put an unfair burden on your parents and on the government. Wear a condom every time, until you are ready to get pregnant.

Answer 10

im 15 and pregnant. and its good to have second thought, please dont do it. ur 11, and you want to lose ur childhood to raising a child for the next 18 years. you will be raising this child till your 29 years old. i always thought i wanted to be pregnant when i was little. because i like the way babys felt and i like holding them and stuff. but, now that im pregnant its still surreal that i gotta spend about 50-60 dollars a month on diapers, and doctor appointments, i gotta get health insurance for mi baby, and food and formula and clothes and car seats and cribs and so much more. ur sooo young please dont do this, like me ur not even old enough to drive ur child around, ur only 11 years into life. if u want a baby so bad get one of those real looking baby dolls, i have one. u have all ur life to bless this world wit ur offspring. please be patient. if u have any question lemme kno. if u still wanna go thru wit it e-mail me so i can tell u wut happened to my cuzin whu got pregant at 9 years old. in the mean time loo at this website and tell me if u still wanna have a baby.

Answer 11

Why not get a puppy or a kitten together? It's cute & cuddly, and it will be almost like having a baby - you will still have to feed it, clean up its poop and other messes, buy it toys, etc. You just won't have made a life-altering mistake when you realize that it's a lot more responsibility and less fun than you actually wanted.