2006-06-05 11:35:14 · 34 answers · asked by Sexymamacita 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, it should be a feeling. You have to feel a more special connection with a woman than you do a man, more than best friends. You have to be attracted to them emotionally, spiritually and physically to say that you are a lesbian. They have to make you feel better than any guy has done in your life. Love is what is what is attracting to your mate male or female.
2006-06-05 11:38:36 · answer #1 · answered by Almighty Malachi 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If girls turn you on and guys don't you are a lesbian. If girls really turn you on sometimes and you want to engage in a sexual experience then you are bisexual or bi-curious.
Some girls say they new they were a lesbian since the day they were born.
Others say it was a conscious choice for them. They started off really enjoying men and now they choose to be with women only.
You should not be so worried about labels unless you are trying to choose one or the other.
It is very possible for you to be a hetero sexual girl that has had or who wants to have a lesbian experience. That doesn't make you a lesbian but it does mean that you are bi-curious or have been at one time.
What ever you choose to do think about it or pray about it first.
We don't have to act on every sexual urge rather it involves being with a man or woman, that it what separates us from animals! lol
What ever you do make sure that is what YOU really want to do and it's not about peer pressure or what seems to be trendy at the time. Please don't let labels define who you are.
2006-06-05 12:25:16 · answer #2 · answered by norcaliqt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple lesbians are sexually attracted to women only. If you are attracted to women and men you are bi. And if you are attracted to men you are straight. There is no in between or maybe with any of these you are one of them only. If you are not sure it is only because you do not want to believe or face what you already know. At the end it doesn't matter which sex you are attracted to or whether you are a lesbian, bi or straight be proud as there is only one of you. :]
2006-06-10 00:33:16 · answer #3 · answered by tantiprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are old enough to understand your own feelings then you already know the answer to this question.
Are you sexually attracted to women?
Are you NOT sexually attracted to men?
Is it that you are having feelings you don't want to have? You may have suddenly developed a `crush` on another woman, which doesn't really mean you are gay - just curious. Bi-sexuality is possible - maybe with a preference for one gender over the other.
In some senses you can make a choice: I know women who are attracted to men physically, but have sexual relationships with women because they feel they get more from them emotionally.
But if you are having sexual thoughts about women ONLY - well, guess what?
2006-06-05 23:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by Plum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I love the company of other women, but I know I am NOT a lesbian because I don't fancy them.
2006-06-05 11:40:27 · answer #5 · answered by irish_glen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that very hard and the line between bisexual and lesbian is very thin.i know one thing if ever u enjoy the company of a man and actually feel some chemistry then you aren't a lesbian.but if you are more attracted to women and ever wish or fantasies of more than just hugging out you have a right to question yourself
2006-06-05 11:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by hani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u like women more than men,if so it looks like you may be a lesbian
2006-06-05 11:40:00 · answer #7 · answered by mike k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why??? Do you only like women???
You find men disgusting and the idea of sex with them repulsive???
If the answers to the above are YES, then yes you are a lesbian...
However, you could be bisexual if you like having sex with men and women...
2006-06-05 20:59:41 · answer #8 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it transpires that you do turn out to be a lesbian and you at any stage need to be converted back to heterosexual ways then gimme a call.
2006-06-06 00:08:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way to discover if your are a lesbian is if you are sexually attracted to women, and only women. But, if you find yourself being attracted to both men and women then you are bisexual.
2006-06-05 11:38:58 · answer #10 · answered by blackcola05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋