I have finally given up on trying to gee my ex back, and now she is trying to get back into my life. She says she finally sees I am just trying to be her friend and is sorry for the way she had been treating me and wants to keep the lines of communication open and maybe even spend sometime together. Should I let her in and be her friend or should I just keep on moving on so I don't get hurt again?
2006-06-05 11:34:24 · 7 answers · asked by Love_is_there 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There are probably only two situations going on here, and you can visualize them by looking at your two hands.
In one hand, you two are still in love, and can't keep away from eachother. She's contacting you because she realizes she made a mistake and misses you, and you haven't flat out said no because you still have feelings for her too.
On the other hand, she might be calling you because she's lonely, and judging by the long period of time you tried to get her back, she thinks she can easily get you back. You are trying to decide on an opportunity before figuring out if you even WANT to do it.
So act on your feelings. Figure out if she makes your heart throb with love or pain.
2006-06-06 13:29:14 · answer #1 · answered by Brackalicious 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think she enjoyed you trying to get her back and when you stopped she ran to you but not until then. Do you really want to risk being taken for a ride again or would you prefer to keep moving forward and seek some peace and happiness? Just think about it take your time but not to much time. Good Luck!!!
2006-06-07 22:10:05 · answer #2 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST MOVE ON!! if u don't then by all means risk getting hurt again! there are plenty of other woman who will treat u well from the start! TRUST ME!!
2006-06-06 18:22:02 · answer #3 · answered by Chrissy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep moving on, she sound like, she likes to play head games. You don't need that in your life.
2006-06-08 13:02:10 · answer #4 · answered by gsi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you can know that one...
you can try to be friends if you are able to contain your feelings to only friends, but if you can't, you may end up getting hurt in that age old game of--human yo-yo
push him as far away as I can, just to see if he will come back.
it's a grisley game, my recommendation: don't hang out with girls who play games with your feelings.
2006-06-06 17:14:22 · answer #5 · answered by redsoxfan11x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart and love like you've never been hurt.
2006-06-05 18:53:36 · answer #6 · answered by SimplyWhite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know really.
2006-06-05 19:45:17 · answer #7 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋