I've had 2 miscarriages by the same gentleman.and I just found out yesterday I 'm pregnant again.I have a ten year old he has no kids he's almost forty but I'm kinda getting tired of loosing my babies I hve a problem between the 10 and the 13th week.My doctor said it's fine he really don't consider it a problem since I miscarry so early but it's really hard on my body.I'm starting to cramp again my doctor said it's normal,just keep my feet elevated.I was spotting some at work last night although it was brown and not bright red I don't know if I can go through this shi* again,any ladies out there with this problem?Please help.
2006-06-05 11:33:40 · 10 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You need to change doctors, seriously, before it's too late. Especially since your m/c's could be related to hormone deficiencies, meaning you could need emergency hormone supplements to keep you pregnant. I know this from personal experience.
Go find another OB/GYN. A good one will run tests & probably refer you to an endocrinologist to do a hormone panel on you to find out where your levels are, etc.
A good OB/GYN will also give you a thorough exam to help rule out things like an incompetent cervix, high blood pressure & diabetes. Which all, btw, could lead to miscarriage.
If you're trying to have a child, especially if you're over 30, you don't have time to waste. You need to find out more about your reproductive health & so on, so that you can have another child & to learn as to why you keep m/c.
I was having "female issues" for yrs, etc & had a still born 7 yrs ago, yet never learned why I was having these problems, or why my baby died UNTIL I changed Dr.'s & found a specialist. It was then I suddenly became more informed & aware of my body.
Best of luck to you!
2006-06-05 11:44:04 · answer #1 · answered by Wild Rose 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry to hear of all the trouble that you have been having. I have had a miscarriage at 11 weeks and 4 days, and with this pregnancy I have had two seperate occasions of having a 'threatened miscarriage'. I understand it's tough, but try to relax. Get hubby to pamper you, and put you in bed with a good book and a cup of tea.
If you do miscarry, which I sincerely hope you don't, your doctor will be able to do some genetic testing to try and work out why you miscarried.
I'm going to include the link to a miscarriage forum that I think you might find useful. I used it after my miscarriage, and found a lot of support there.
2006-06-05 13:13:46 · answer #2 · answered by Jade 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thimk your body cannot take the strain of pregnancy. You need a new doctor one who will give yoou better answers. I lost three kids due to miscarriage. I was 4 months with twins and 5 months with a girl. We have a child but my body could not hold the weigh of a growing child until I had a cercolge put in to hold are now 5 yr old daughter in the womb. I would love to be in your shoes and pregnant again . We have been trying for 4 yrs now with no luck. I will pray for you and may God bless you.
2006-06-05 11:39:51 · answer #3 · answered by momof_12003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I myself went through same problem years ago dr.s said I couldnt go past 9weeks without miscarrriaging,well about 5 years after my 2 losses I conceived quit work and told the dr.s they ere wrong I put myself on bed rest no exerciseing just lite walking alot of sleeping eating and very important vitamins and no STRESS I now have 2 children,I had cervical cancer cured I have endometreosis which caused me to get a hysterectomy last year but throughout it all I have 2 healthy children and them damn dr.s were wrong. Good luck and be very careful with spicy foods or foods your stomach cant handle well meaning avoid diarehea.This itself can cause miscarriage cause it causes your uterus to contract .again Good luck and go see a new dr you need special attention now and there is much to worrry about.
2006-06-05 11:50:30 · answer #4 · answered by laffytaffy2007girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bed rest is the best advice I can give you. Take off as many days as you can until you are out of the danger zone.. ( 2nd trimester) Good Luck and Congradulations.
2006-06-05 11:37:54 · answer #5 · answered by rose_everafter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be calm. You might be fine.
If you get panicky - you won't.
Relax, hope for the best. Its not in your hands - but you and your gentleman seem to want a child. So, hope for the best.
Good luck.
2006-06-05 11:37:27 · answer #6 · answered by Blim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is going to happen again take this from me if your going to have sex protect yourself and if you don't stop getting pregnant so quickly your never going to have a baby. slow down or use the best protection you can .
2006-06-05 11:48:31 · answer #7 · answered by inocent 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really sad to have to go through twice. If I were you, i'd get a second opinion.
2006-06-05 11:36:49 · answer #8 · answered by Just Gone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a woman i sympathize with you deeply,even if i have not been through all that.I'm sorry.maybe you should consult another doctor and don't forget to pray too.
2006-06-05 11:38:12 · answer #9 · answered by liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stressing out about it all the time is making it worse.
Relax...
2006-06-05 11:36:15 · answer #10 · answered by sparrow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋