last night i was spending sometimehaving sex with my a person in seeing. he wants to please me but i cant have an orgasm for some **** up reson i need help becuz he think that hes not pleasing me but he is not all the way but he doese so help me so that things dont get wore becuz he gets a little fustrated with mm e or somthing like that. .... thanx you.....
2006-06-05 11:24:23 · 5 answers · asked by HOTBABE 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
well to be quite honest i do not always have a orgasm either.. though they may make me feel good.. certain men know the g spots of a woman and can really get them off.. sometimes it takes more foreplay and though i am very straight with just being with men i like oral sex too...so just explain to him and if he does not understand then he is not much of a friend ... but men have this ego trip too.. i do not let them know if i can halp it, but if they do not please me too after a while then it is time to move on.. i know sex is not all there is to a good relationship but it is very important...he should not be getting frustrated at you anyway.. but this does happen and i am 53 years old and have had some good expeiences...one thing i really believe is that a person should really love and care for someone deeply before having sex.. i know that is true for me.. i like to be with someone i am famialiar with.. men seem to be able to get any strange girl and not have a ounce of feeling for her....so i really do not know what else to say, but i hope i have helped you some anyway.. another thing you have to have your mind into what you are doing too...
2006-06-05 11:34:59 · answer #1 · answered by sanangel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you spend time thinking about having an orgasm, it will never come. Relax, enjoy the ride, and dont forget to breathe. Oxygenated blood helps with the orgasms. Also, not every woman has an orgasm during intercourse, you guys might need to do some foreplay where you get direct stimulation and you can then have a orgasm easier.
2006-06-05 18:30:14 · answer #2 · answered by lily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you haven't given us details on what you've tried to achieve orgasm. All I can say is, that most women need a long foreplay session before intercourse. Don't accept intercourse until you are so aroused you can't take it any longer and need him NOW! If you are new to sex, it takes most females a long time for their bodies to adjust to being penetrated. and fully enjoy what's being done to them. Also if he is penetrating you too hard or fast, your nerve endings dont have time to feel as they should. Slow things down, to fully absorb the experience. Good luck..
2006-06-05 18:38:05 · answer #3 · answered by Mare 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could try me out, and if i cant, then its you and you should just try new things!
2006-06-05 18:26:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try different tequenics while masturbating and with your person
2006-06-05 18:28:18 · answer #5 · answered by lil_dawglova 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋