I just broke up with my boyfriend and it is really hard right now. I am trying to think of things to take my m

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and it is really hard right now. I am trying to think of things to take my mind off the pain?

I am episcopal and I believe in God. I know he exists and I know he made me this way. So all the Bible Thumpers get out of Gay questions pages. If you think we don't belong then post your own questions in the religious section. But for now I need valid answers that may help me. Thanks a lot. And God Bless.

I apologize for that outburst. I am just really upset. Thank you all for your answers. I am truly blessed.

Answer 1

Hey boy wonder , You're so cute I am sure you won't be lonely too long . I wish you would think of me ! I am sorry just teasing you . I know it is hard for you right now , But you have to remember that you broke up with him for a reason . Keep your chin up and remember that you are a special and unique individual , You have much to offer and a lot to give the right guy who will appreciate and love you for all you are , and all that you have to offer . Call friends and go out to dinner , see a movie , start a project , or take up a hobby , volunteer someplace that needs your special talents . The truth of the matter is , No matter what advice anyone has for you it will be hard and you ultimately have to work it out on your own . Just make sure you have a good friends shoulder to cry on or ear to bend when you need it . Best of luck to you .

Answer 2

Read the Bible, or a good science fiction book, or whatever kind you prefer, take walks under the stars, do things to make yourself more attractive community involvement, sports, clubs etc...

Don't lock yourself into home and work and feed your depression! See a counselour to bounce the things you think went wrong with the relationship off of. Pray and meditate waiting on the answers after you pray!

Answer 3

Your question breaks my heart. I know that my boyfriend is about to dump me. He says he's fallen out of love, but I haven't. Just surround yourself with friends. Talk the situation over with someone you trust. Don't be afraid to cry like a little ******. Take up some new hobbies, read, whatever. I'm truly sorry for you.

Answer 4

Find some new hobbies to keep you busy like sports, sewing, drawing, reading, hiking, whatever you enjoy doing. Spoil yourself with shopping. Go out with your friends. Exercise-when you do something good for yourself you tend to feel better. These simple things can help you realize how great you are and what you have going on with your life. It's hard, but you'll get through it eventually. Good luck!

Answer 5

The scary thing is theres not much you can do. I could say all the usual stuff like "keep yourself occupied" but in reality it's a load of crap. You'll deal when you're ready and not before. Sorry and good luck!

Answer 6

I broke up with a guy I was with for a very very long time, and it sucks, I know. But what I did was to just keep going on with everyday life. Its difficult, but just keep pushing on. Its normal to think about it, and really you have to, to get past it. Eventually it will be better. Dont let it dictate your life, and it wont... :)

Answer 7

Read the Bible - God offers comfort and peace
And pray - remeber you can't hide from God (why would you want to anyway?)

Answer 8

Go out with some friends

Answer 9

Try going to www.okcupid.com it's a singles site, but anyone can use it, you can just make friends or find your soul mate, or just do daft tests. It's cool, go on try it, please, go on, just for me. :D

If you need someone to talk to, contact me through YA, I'm a big sister so I'm used to being a bit of an agony aunt!

Answer 10

Pamper yourself, buy yourself a treat, go get a massage or some new clothes, something like that