would you be the gender you are now or would you be the opposite sex?
2006-06-05 11:06:58 · 24 answers · asked by Karen S 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
...by the way I'm completely happy being a woman and a lesbian... just curious about other people
2006-06-05 11:16:06 · update #1
I would still deffinately be a woman. That is the biggest misconception about gays and lesbians. That the reason we like the same sex is because we truly want to be the other gender. I had a friend who was a guy who used to always say, "I am a lesbian stuck in a man's body." My first reaction was, doesn't that make you straight? I was wrong. He felt like a girl. He felt he had the wrong body, but he still liked women. It was eye opening for me. But it works the other way too. Just because we like the same sex doesn't mean we want to change to conform to what society want's us to be.
I mean sure women have their "women problems" but hey, at least the whole world doesn't know when we are excited.
2006-06-05 12:52:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, it depends....
Do you mean what if we could go back to the time before we were born and change things? Or do you mean the next time around?
I wouldn't change anything as far as this life is concerned (yep, do believe in reincarnation! :) ). I enjoy being a woman and a lesbian VERY much. I think it's something that I needed to do in order to learn part of my life lessons.
Now, for the next time around....lol, it's hard to say. I think I would like to change genders. Just to see what it's like! But then again, if I have been here more than once, the chances that I was already a guy are pretty high. Oh, it's too confusing! lol. Variety is the spice of life they say, so the next time around I would like to change genders. Who knows what lessons that will teach me?
2006-06-05 21:08:34 · answer #2 · answered by Autumn BrighTree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only up side to being a woman is the ability to have children. I would love to be able to do that, but i like being a guy more. Cause if i was a woman all i would need is a man to use once and hopefully not ever again after i had the kid. But as it is i am a male, happy to be one. I can raise children, but not my own of course.
2006-06-05 18:36:52 · answer #3 · answered by sd_smalltown_boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay a guy but would choose to be straight. I had a lot of issues when i was younger with my sexuality and although i think im a pretty sorted guy, its a lot harder life being gay i believe, also iv never met anyone special and thats a lot to do with it. Im 32 and would prob be married with kids by now if i was straight, rather than being lonely as i am now. I dont hate being gay but just think it would be easier being straight.
2006-06-05 18:23:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has been an enlightening experience. I've really struggled in the past with my gender, but I'm relieved to discover that if I could have chosen my gender, I would remain female.
2006-06-13 15:26:38 · answer #5 · answered by Just Jess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not gay nor bi, but it would be a hard choice to make. i can see why i would like to be a woman again but i also see that it might be nice to be a man. i am sure it is so much easier for them. i don't think if i were given the choice that i would be gay.
2006-06-05 18:12:57 · answer #6 · answered by wayladuley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, that is a good question? Hummm.....I am a girl, maybe I would be the same person, just done everything different. but hell It would be so much easier to be a guy, no "female" problems. But yea I would still be a girl, yeah a girl....lol
2006-06-05 19:18:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same gender. It would be difficult to know what it would be like to be either gender if you hadn't been born and experienced anything yet.
2006-06-05 18:10:41 · answer #8 · answered by Melissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though things would still be hard, I'd keep this gender. I have my Best Beloved with me and I couldn't imagine life without her.
2006-06-06 01:28:38 · answer #9 · answered by Mama Otter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would, I would have loved being born a girl.
2006-06-06 09:27:26 · answer #10 · answered by Nascar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋