2006-06-05 10:43:58 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Just talk to her a little, give her a compliment on her hair OR her outfit, and ask if she would like to do something sometime...it doesn't have to be a specific "thing" that you do, if you aren't sure WHAT to do, just ask her, and you will be able to tell if she wants to hang out with you or not!!! Good luck!!!!
2006-06-05 10:46:41 · answer #1 · answered by star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you will be a little embarrassed anyway. First, make sure you ask her at a place where you are the most comfortable. You can try warming her up first by saying for instance, "Ashley, I know that this may be a surprise to you, but I think you are the most beautiful girl in the whole wide world..." Always start with a HUGE compliment. This helps ease the nerves in both of you. Then, move in for the kill. Don't beat around the bush. This makes it awkward. Remember, the worst she could do is say no.
2006-06-05 17:53:16 · answer #2 · answered by Manda Bear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well embarassment is the name of the game actually. but think about this what is the worst that can happen? she says no and maybe a smart comment well would you want to date her if she puts people down? and whats wrong with getting a no? then at elast you know that she cant or wont go out with you so you can move your attentions to another girl so in that way you win. and if she says yes you got the outcome you wanted so what do you have to lose either way.
put for a short checklist and help here goes
1 personal hygiene did you take a shower put on deoterant maybe use some colonge if it matches well with your deoterant. did you brush you teeth for at least 5 minutes. wake up 15 minutes early on the day so you break up your routine and from one small change comes many.
2 night before think about what you want to say and write it down and just mull it over for no more than 5 minutes so you dont drive yourself crazy with "the right wording" words are words are words most of what you say is communicated by body language so dont dwell on words
then read it to yourself at least 5 times to set the general idea in your head. then put it away till bedtime and say it to yourself in the biggest mirror you can so that you can see as much of your body as you can. then go to bed.
then after your hygiene resay it to your self in the bathroom mirror.
hope that helps you to get at least to the asking part.
2006-06-05 17:51:32 · answer #3 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not alone. I think all males asking a girl out for the first time have the same problem. Practice what your going to say to the girl in front of the mirror and then when you deliver your speech, pretend you are still standing in front of the mirror. You will be surprised how well that works.
2006-06-05 17:45:58 · answer #4 · answered by mikeae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no guarantee you won't embarrass yourself, most of us do at one time or the other. what, you think you are better than us? if you ask enuf, one will eventually say yes. (one that is a little more desperate than you). you have to crawl before you can walk. courage is like a muscle, when you were a baby, you couldn't walk, eventually you pulled yourself up and strengthened those muscles until you could walk , then run, courage is the same way, you may fall down the first few times , but eventually you will figure out what NOT to do. you are strengthening your courage muscle.
2006-06-05 17:51:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well start off casually, just ask her about her favorite books, movies, favorite after school activites and if there is somthing she enjoys doing just slip in the asking out part by saying "want to hang out and do what ever activity it is that she likes". or group activites a re great too, plan a few freinds to go to the movies or somthing and ask her personally.Dont be afraid. Girls like boys who are not shy and not afraid to speek their mind. Dont worrie, what ever you say will be fine.
2006-06-05 17:48:52 · answer #6 · answered by Nissie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 14 I put a note in the girl's locker, that was a wash out big time. Just go up to someone you know you have a chance w. and ask her straight out if she wants to go to somewhere everyone likes to go.
2006-06-05 17:47:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you ask her out, try to become good friends with her. Find out what she likes to do and who she likes to hang out with. Then, once you've become more familiar with her, it should be much less embarrasing to ask her out.
If you are wanting to ask her out right away for any specific reason (an upcoming concert or dance) I really have no advice. Just build up the strength and ask God for guidence.
2006-06-05 17:47:56 · answer #8 · answered by MrTayL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the important thing is to actually have an idea of what you all will be doing first... don't just ask if she wants to go out with you sometime... pick a date and a place you'll go... and you're young, so nothing fancy and make sure that you have some transportation set up...
all elso fails, go for the group date...
good luck bud!
ps... if it doesn't work out, don't worry, this is just the beginning
2006-06-05 17:47:30 · answer #9 · answered by smartguytrustme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think it would be cute if you sent her a note asking her but it HAS to get to her you don't want some dork getting it and if you ask to her face practice what you are going to say in the mirror then say it to her but it has to be cool (don't stutter or repeat things) quick (just something like do you wanna see a movie? call her for the details later) and do not i repeat do not use some stoopid pick up line! :^)
2006-06-05 17:49:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋